Inspired Simplicity

Contentment spot on

2012-01-23T20:40:00.001-08:00

Psalm 37:4

Delight yourself in the Lord

and He will give you the desires of your heart.

Contentment is:

....when your concerns about things that are out of your control lose their grip in your heart.
....when your dependence on material provisions is transformed into a deep dependence on God.
....when you continually choose to live your life delighting in the Lord.
....when you discover that whatever God provides is enough.

Bench of Comfort

2012-01-23T16:10:00.000-08:00

Jeremiah 3:33

"Call to me and I will answer you

and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know."

Desires of my Heart 2012

2012-01-13T22:14:00.000-08:00

I always get amazed every time I'm able to accomplish something knowing full well it is beyond my self discipline. You know it's a "God thing" when something like that happens.

Pondering my goals/aspirations/intentions is one thing, but writing them and boldly declaring them for accountability, is another. I've always wanted to do it especially when I see my BFF, Cecile, boldly declaring hers on FB every start of a new year. But my self discipline gets in the way...you know, no time, etc., etc., excuses, excuses (maybe I should include "work on my procrastination" as one of my aspirations:) Well, our bible study group's work yesterday was to write down our short term goals. We even lifted up each other's goal(s) in prayer. So there....no more excuses! It's so obvious how God has been, and is always, working behind the scenes to give us the desires of our heart.

Here are the desires of my heart for the year 2012:

1.) Continue Quiet Time

6am-7am or after dropping off Isabella
if possible mid-afternoon while waiting for Isabella at SFB
before bedtime around 9:30pm-10:30pm

2.) Arrive on time at our weekly Fremont Bible Study Group (Fridays, 10:30am)

3.) Start a personal bible study with my BFF Cecile

4.) Collaborate an inspirational project with my BFF Cecile (FB page: Whispered Prayers From the Heart)

5.) Resume journalling (create inspirational blog - Too Blessed to be Stressed: Gifts of Motherhood and contribute it to our church's monthly newsletter

6.) Start exercise program with bible study friends twice a week

7.) Remain positive and content (I refuse to let the enemy steal my joy!)

So there you have it! I've finally declared my desires!:) Now will someone/anyone/everyone please hold me accountable?!:)

Psalm 37: 4 Take delight in the LORD,

and He will give you the desires of your heart.

The closer we get to God, the more our desires align with His will

Side note:

I think the last one on my list: Remain positive and content, may be the hardest to keep. Yes, in our own strength and by our own ability, we can't continuously keep positive and content in a fallen world. But when we put God's Word in our heart, when we lean on His strength and trust in His promises, we can!

The Apostle Paul said in

Philippians 4:12-14

New International Version (NIV)

¹² I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. ¹³ I can do all this through him who gives me strength.

Bible Study 09/17/2011

2011-09-17T10:00:00.000-07:00

Wonderful bible study today reminding us not to judge nor lose hope on the people we think will never come to repentance and obedience....those we think and will never be saved.

Paul’s story is a perfect example. He was Saul in his “B.C.” life (before Christ) when he “intensely persecuted the church of God and tried to destroy it” (Galatians 1:13). Saul had a "but God" moment: Ephesians: 2:4 "But God who is rich in mercy, made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions - it is by grace you have been saved".

My friends who knew me during my own "B.C." life asks: “what happened to you?” It’s such a wonderful question with an equally wonderful answer: “Christ happened to me!”

Just when I start thinking: I found Him for I was obedient to His word, “seek and you shall find”; I am reminded that it was not He who was lost….I was lost and He found me!

Thank you dear Lord for reminding me that your grace is a gift...not because of works so that I may not boast.

Ephesians 2:8-10 New International Version (NIV)

⁸ For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God— ⁹ not by works, so that no one can boast. ¹⁰ For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.

Jeremiah 9:24
but let the one who boasts boast about this: that they have the understanding to know me, that I am the LORD, who exercises kindness, justice and righteousness on earth, for in these I delight,” declares the LORD.

2 Corinthians 10:8
So even if I boast somewhat freely about the authority the Lord gave us for building you up rather than tearing you down, I will not be ashamed of it.

Galatians 6:14
May I never boast except in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, through which the world has been crucified to me, and I to the world.

Isabella's Dance Anthology

2011-05-13T16:40:00.000-07:00

Click on the photo to watch a video of Isabella's dance journey

Isabella's Dance Anthology from when she started performing as a dance troupe member at CDMA beginning in 2007 (at 8 years old) to her performances at Joffrey Ballet and in Panama in the summer of 2010. We hope you enjoy. Thanks for watching.

Getting to Know Me

2011-05-11T19:03:00.000-07:00

One of my spiritual mentors and angel on earth, tita Rose, is a contributor for St. Paul United Methodist Church newsletter. In her segment, Getting to Know You, she asked to feature my story for the month of December 2010.

Here are my answers to her interview questions:

1.Tell me about your family.
I’m a blessed only child to amazing parents. Most of you probably know my dear mom, Mila Sebastian. My beloved dad, Arnulfo Sebastian, went home to be with the Lord in 2001. In 2009 we welcomed my stepdad, Dennis Magcale, into our family.
I’m also a blessed full-time stay-at-home mom to 4 wonderful children (Phil 23, Immanuel 21, Ian 18, and Isabella 11) and wife to a loving husband (Russ) of 24 years.

2. I'm aware that you're privileged to be a stay-at-home mom. Do you have regrets about this arrangement?
I indeed consider it a great privilege and awesome gift being a stay-at-home mom. There are so many wonderful blessings brought about by full-time motherhood. I am very grateful for all the precious memories of our children’s growing up years that I was able to fully partake in....as team mom in baseball, assistant to my husband as den leader in cub-scouting, taekwondo coach, and ballet mom. Full time motherhood allows me to take Isabella to her daily training at SF Ballet, attend and volunteer at Nutcracker shows and accompany her at summer programs. All these are made possible because of the blessing of full time motherhood. Being a stay at home mom also enables me to fully guide my children in realizing their full potential. I am very proud and grateful to say that they all excel in their own respective callings. Best of all, they are all loving children, beautiful inside and out. So I can honestly say that I do not have any regrets.

3.Tell me about one life-changing or unforgettable moment in your life.
We all know that every person has his/her own stories of trials that make way for a change in one’s life. Some call these moments as “wake-up calls”. I like to call them “opportunities for transformation”. Mine came in the form of financial difficulty. Prior to my personal relationship with the Lord, I led a “trying-to-do-it-all and have-it-all” lifestyle. We kept up with the worldly standards of accumulating material wealth. We even moved several times in search of the better and bigger home. Then in 2004 came my opportunity for transformation....my husband lost his lucrative contract, our main source of income. To make a long story short, we were forced to sell one of our homes in 2006(the big one which I thought was my dream home). Though it was a very difficult decision at the time, I realize now that it was our amazing Lord God Almighty rescuing me from my superficial and exhausting lifestyle. Not only was I released from the chains of unsatisfying way of life, it was the best course of action (I’d like to call it “Divine Appointment”). We sold our home for so much more than what it would have sold in the economy that followed. And not only that...because of it, we were able to purchase a home in Pismo Beach close to Cal Poly. Amazing, don’t you think? Just exactly the way we know only God would and can do...the way He operates...amazingly perfect.

4.What's your favorite biblical passage and how does this impact your life?
I have a lot of favorite scriptures. But in line with my story of financial difficulty as my “opportunity for transformation”, Matthew 6:33 comes to mind: But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.
I also use this verse in my daily tasks. It reminds me to put God first as my top priority and a lot of unnecessary things just seem to naturally fall off my to-do list on their own.

5. How do you make use of your time?
This question brings to mind Proverbs 31: 27 - She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. As a veteran home manager, I was able to establish daily/weekly routines that I try to follow in order to “watch over the affairs of our household”. I have to say that solitude is an important part of my daily rituals. It is logged in my schedule as “time with God”. I found that when I start my day with God, my entire day has direction. If I start feeling overwhelmed, I know I somehow neglected to include God (or if I forget, my angel daughter would sweetly remind me). I realized that the busier I am, the more I need to make time for God. The discipline of solitude enables me to make the best use of my time each day and is yet another blessing I’m grateful for.

6. How did you learn the discipline of solitude?
I was able get the training of the discipline of solitude when the Lord brought us to Pismo Beach. Little did I know that our move to Pismo Beach, which was then full of uncertainties, would become an essential part of my journey toward spiritual maturity. It was a beautiful place by the sea showcasing the grandeur of God’s creation thereby inviting daily contemplation and repose. It was there where I got the chance to get closer to the Lord. Away from the busy city life, I got the chance to cultivate the habit of not only starting and ending my day with God but also including Him in all I do. Talk about God’s amazing divine plan in turning what appeared to be a trial into an opportunity for transformation!

7. What makes you happy and what makes you sad?
My personal relationship with the Lord makes me happy and also all the blessings He has given me...full-time motherhood, family, friends, health, my bible study group....
When you have a personal relationship with the Lord, your perspective on sadness is different...like I said, I like to call them opportunities for transformation. But to answer your question, it makes me sad when my personal relationship with the Lord is not right because of something I did or did not do for His glory.

8. Who is a wise person in your life? Why do you think so?
The person(s) I consider wise are those who have a deep personal relationship with the Lord. And in my life, that would be the ones who brought me and continues to bring me closer to the Lord....tita Rose Agana and ate Lolit Flores, my spiritual mentors, angels, and bible study leaders. They are indeed wise individuals whose relationship with the Lord is not only personal or private but also communal as they share their wisdom and blessings to everyone they meet.

9.How do you want to be remembered by people around you?
I would love to be remembered by the people around me as someone who reflected the love of Christ. Someone whose smile, hug, words, welcomed them home to God’s love. It would be delightful to hear my children thanking God for a mother who lived the virtues she wanted to see in them.

Easter 2011

2011-05-11T17:37:00.000-07:00

We're already well into the month of May and I'm just now posting our Easter 2011. I did post this on my Facebook page. The convenience of Facebook sometimes takes the place of blogging. OK, I guess I'm just justifying my lateness.

Isabella and I left for Pismo right after I picked her up from school, Friday, April 22nd (no ballet class at SFB). We stopped at Cal Poly to pick up Ian at his dorm.

As soon as we got to the house, Isabella and I posed for a photo-op in the backyard while Phil was barbecuing.

Then it was pure relaxation at our home sweet Pismo Beach home.

The following day, Russ and I had the pleasure of watching Isabella at CDMA's company class from 9-11am. It was a great treat for Russ and I as we don't really get to watch Isabella during classes at SFB. We were very pleased and proud of her progress not to mention the joy and passion that shows through her dancing. We're so grateful.

Then we were off to pick up the boys to head to the Easter Egg hunt at Dinosaur Caves Park. We got there at the tail end of the hunt. The website said the hunt for her age group starts at 12:10. We got there at 12:00 but the hunt had already started. It's so funny because in the previous years, we had trouble with the Easter Egg hunt. Last year, I made a mistake of taking her on a Sunday when it was on a Saturday (Easter 2010). Then in 2008 or 2009, we were trying to go to 2 hunts and we were just in the nick of time arriving at the Grover Beach hunt. The problem was that the hunt area was closed off from where we parked and we couldn't run in to the already in progress hunt. Phil made a comment that at least this year we're closer to the actual time. Anyway, Isabella still managed to get 3 eggs:).

After the hunt we went for lunch at Pierside Cafe by the beach

Previous Easter Posts

Mr. & Mrs. Duck

2011-05-11T17:27:00.000-07:00

There is a Mr. & Mrs. Duck who comes and frolics in our pool once in a while in the morning. Isabella and I took pictures while watching them during breakfast before she left for school one sunny April morning. They normally just stay for about 5-10mins and then they fly away. Isabella called daddy and told him about it and daddy said maybe they're celebrating their 25th:)

Quotes of the day

2011-05-11T16:32:00.000-07:00

Be who you are and say what you feel,
because those who mind don't matter
and those who matter don't mind.

-Dr. Seuss-

Learn how to be happy with what you have

while you pursue all that you want.

-Jim Rohn-

Blessed are the flexible

for they shall not be bent out of shape

Scrapbooking Days

2011-05-01T20:09:00.001-07:00

I came across these photos of our old home back in 2005 when I turned our third garage into a sscrapbooking/hobby room.

See the garage on the left? That's the one I decided to convert into a craft room because of its arched windows only to find out I felt so detached from the rest of the family. We sold this home in September of 2006 in favor of what I call our "smaller with bigger soul" home by the beach.

Old images of this home is available here. There is a wonderful story behind our finding and selling this home....but that has to wait until another post. I have to do another activity for my "luxury of solitude for myself" day.

BEFORE

AFTER

What's Your Decorating Style?

2011-05-01T18:05:00.001-07:00

I try to reserve Sundays as my "doing nothing" day or should I say the "luxury of solitude for myself" day. You know, things like curling up with a good book and a cup of tea, or listening to my spiritual mentors listed under my featured links, or even dancing (today I had fun dancing with DD, Isabella, using Michael Jackson's This is It video:)), and now taking a fun online quiz and blogging about it:).

I took this short and fun quiz at Home Goods and it came very close, if not spot on, with regards to its description of my decorating style.

Here's the results of my quiz:

Imelda, you are a GLOBAL CASUAL

Your home is warm and inviting, and expresses your curiosity and zest for life. You have wide-ranging interests, and an appreciation for many different cultures and ways of life. You bring a sense of the far-flung world into your home through its décor through unique or artisan-made treasures. Objects in your home tend to reflect your personality, your passions, your values, and your eclectic interests. This gives your home a sense of intrigue and comfort.

You value creativity. You are stylish and fun loving, and can be an inspiration to others. You have a natural sense of drama, and you know you have to be willing to take risks—whether with colors, finishes, furniture choices, or ideas—for your home to stand out. Your home can be happy and lively and the place all of your friends want to be.

I think my friends and the people who have visited my home would agree with my results (you can click on the tab "Our Homes" and see if the descriptions sound like me). You can try it too and see how close the results will come out for you. I think you'll have fun trying it. It was certainly fun for me and I also like the styling tips it offers to make your home a little happier. Here are the tips for me:

Putting Your Style to Work!
With your style and needs in mind, here are a few tips that will help you make your home a little happier.

1. Your Design Challenge: EXPERIMENT
The last mile in decorating is the hardest, because that is when you really take the risk in expressing yourself. As with fashion or jewelry, one bold piece can set the tone, and the others complement the look. Don't be afraid to experiment, drag stuff around and make mistakes. Use what you're passionate about to inspire your home, whether it is a love for patterns, travel, gardening, family or the sea. Consider a collection of books, pictures or objects on your passion. Giving yourself parameters helps you choose things in keeping with your true style—which is precisely the point of HomeGoods StyleScope. But also think of colors, a country, a movie or words you love when you're shopping, so that you can check that these pieces match your unique sensibility before you bring them home.

2. Your Happy Place
The more serene your bedroom feels, the happier you will be. A pretty coverlet over a big duvet makes the bed look smooth—and not all duvet-lumpy! And, a blanket folded at the foot of the bed breaks up the big expanse of fabric. Euro shams—those big square pillows—are great for reading in bed, and a few decorative pillows can also be a nice touch. Consider adding a basket or a small occasional table near your bedside table for books, papers, lotions, linen spray or whatever you'd like.

3. Be Party-Ready All the Time!
Scent: The first thing you notice about a home is how it smells. Use naturally fragrant cleaning products. If you find a scented candle or fresh potpourri you love, stock up on it. Any scent you like, whether perfume or linen spray, can be used on upholstery, bedding or just spritzed into the air.

Mood: Nice, flattering light makes us feel good. So nix the harsh, direct light from overhead fixtures in favor of the softer glow from floor and table lamps. Also, stock up on some votive candles and a couple of hurricane lanterns for setting around the room.

Food: Devote space in your pantry or on a shelf for go-to party essentials: crackers, dip, chips, nuts—whatever you like to serve. Keep on hand a collection of attractive bowls and cocktail napkins, and you'll be able to set a spread—instantly!

Drink: The simplest and chicest thing is to have a drinks tray or table always set up. Include a mix of pretty glasses, an ice bucket, a lovely pitcher, and bottles of soda and water. When the bell rings, just add ice and limes.

Thanks to The Inspired Room for sharing this quiz.

If you do decide to take the quiz, have fun with it and please let me know what your style is.

RELATED POST: My Decorating Style...Authentic

More Quotes: and my short feflections on them

2011-04-30T10:25:00.000-07:00

Don't judge those who try and fail,
judge those who fail to try.

My reflection: Don't judge. Period.

Here is a better wording of the quote:
Try and fail, but don't fail to try. - Stephen Kraggwa

Be not afraid of growing slowly;
be afraid only of standing still.

My reflection: Be not afraid. The Lord is with us (Psalm 118:6).
And for everything there is a season...even for standing still.

Take heed: you do not find
what you do not seek.

My reflection: Just be careful what it is you seek.

Inspired Quotes II

2011-04-30T10:20:00.000-07:00

‎A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity;
an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.

The more light you allow within you,
the brighter the world you live in will be.

Confidence comes not from always being right,
but from not fearing to be wrong.

Look deep into nature,
and then you will understand everything better. -Albert Einstein

Giving up doesn't always mean you are weak.
Sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go.

You may only be someone in the world,

but to someone else, you may be the world. - Enrich Fried, German poet

Only in quiet waters things mirror themselves undistorted.

Only in a quiet mind is adequate perception of the world. - Hans Margolius

He who foresees calamities,

suffers them twice over. - Beilby Porteus

Worry is the interest paid on trouble before it falls due.

Yesterday is a canceled check;

tomorrow is a note;

today is the only cash you have - so spend it wisely. - Kay Lyons

The person who has learned to take things as they come

and to let go as they depart

has mastered the art of cheerful and contented living.

If you really want to do something,

you'll find a way;

if you dont, you'll find an excuse.

Family Room and Kitchen

2011-04-29T08:59:00.000-07:00

Hubby took Isabella to ballet yesterday and I was able to spend the afternoon doing some serious "home blessing".

Home blessing is when I do things for the home including cleaning, organizing, and of course decorating/beautification. It always feels so good to savor the results afterwards and I even remembered to take some photos....

Kitchen

I have more to follow but for now gotta get ready for my bible study. Until my next home blessing....

Footprints: A New Version

2011-04-27T18:20:00.000-07:00

Imagine you and the Lord Jesus are walking down the road together. For much of the way, the Lord's footprints go along steadily, consistently, rarely varying the pace.

But your footprints are a disorganized stream of zigzags, starts, stops, turnarounds, circles, departures, and returns.

For much of the way, it seems to go like this, but gradually your footprints come more in line with the Lord's, soon paralleling His consistently.

You and Jesus are walking as true friends!

This seems perfect, but then an interesting thing happens: Your footprints that once etched the sand next to Jesus' are now walking precisely in His steps.

Inside His larger footprints are your smaller ones, you and Jesus are becoming one.

This goes on for many miles, but gradually you notice another change. The footprints inside the large footprints seem to grow larger.

Eventually they disappear altogether. There is only one set of footprints. They have become one.

This goes on for a long time, but suddenly the second set of footprints is back. This time it seems even worse! Zigzags all over the place. Stops. Starts. Gashes in the sand. A variable mess of prints.

You are amazed and shocked.

Your dream ends. Now you pray:

"Lord, I understand the first scene, with zigzags and fits. I was a new Christian; I was just learning. But You walked on through the storm and helped me learn to walk with You."

"That is correct."

"And when the smaller footprints were inside of Yours, I was actually learning to walk in Your steps, following You very closely."

"Very good.. You have understood everything so far."

When the smaller footprints grew and filled in Yours, I suppose that I was becoming like You in every way."

"Precisely."

"So, Lord, was there a regression or something? The footprints separated, and this time it was worse than at first."

There is a pause as the Lord answers, with a smile in His voice.

"You didn't know? It was then that we danced!"

Learning to Dance in the Rain

2011-04-26T09:22:00.001-07:00

One stormy day during one of Isabella's rehearsals for Coppelia, we made a mistake of taking the train rather than our usual drive. We decided to take the BART because it's a long rehearsal and I didn't want to have to worry about moving the car and finding another 2hr parking. When we got out of the train, it was pouring rain. I told Isabella: "let's stop at the library and wait for the rain to pass". She said: "But mommy we don't know when the rain will pass. Let's just go for it". So we did. As we were walking the 3 long blocks to SFB, the rain seemed to have gotten worse and I can feel the water seeping into my boots. I was so concerned about Isabella's tights getting wet. By now I started getting irritated, opening a door for the enemy to come in. I got upset at Isabella for suggesting to "just go for it" instead of stopping at the library. In her efforts to calm me down, she said: "Mom, remember you always say to enjoy the moments? and this is a rare moment when we get to walk in the rain! Let's have fun with it and we'll always remember it". Well, I will surely remember that moment. I learned yet another lesson from my angel daughter.

This quote came to mind: "Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain".

We can be happy as we wait for the storm to pass.

Jesus himself said:

from John 16:33
" I have told you these things,
so that in me you may have peace.
In this world you will have trouble.
But take heart! I, Jesus, have overcome the world."

from John 10:10b

"I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full."

Inspired Quotes

2011-04-25T18:10:00.000-07:00

God always gives His best to those
who leave the choice with Him.

A smile and a hug is a great gift... one size fits all.
It can be given for any occasion
and it's easy to exchange.

The real measure of a man's wealth
is what he has invested in eternity.

Thank God for what you have,
TRUST GOD for what you need.

If you fill your heart with regrets of yesterday and the worries of tomorrow,
you have no today to be thankful for.

Love is the only thing that can be
divided without being diminished.

Happiness is enhanced by others
but does not depend upon others.

For every minute you are angry with someone,
you lose 60 seconds of happiness
that you can never get back.

Do what you can, for who you can,
with what you have, and where you are.

Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

If you want your dreams to come true, you mustn't oversleep.

Of all the things you wear, your expression is the most important.

The best vitamin for making friends..... B1.

The happiness of your life depends on the quality of your thoughts.

The heaviest thing you can carry is a grudge.

Ideas won't work unless ' You' do.

Your mind is like a parachute...it functions only when open.

The 10 commandments are not a multiple choice.

God doesn't call the qualified, He qualifies the called.

Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain.

When prayers go up, blessings come down.

Don't tell God how big your storm is, Tell the storm how big your God is!

On Buffing the Floor

2011-04-20T10:45:00.000-07:00

My son: “Mom why do you feel the need to buff the floor every day?! I think there’s something wrong with you.”

I made a mistake of choosing dark cherry wood flooring for our home. It looks beautiful when it is clean and buffed. Unfortunately, every little dust and most specially foot marks, are very noticeable and they bug me to a point that I sometimes end up screaming at my kids and even my husband (confession timeJ) if they fail to put slippers on and dare walk barefoot on our beautiful newly buffed dark cherry wood.

So I pondered what my son told me. Could there really be something wrong with feeling the need to buff the floor everyday? I think I do have borderline OCD (ok sometimes it seems more like full blown OCD). Then I realized, though there is some truth to what my son said, I must be getting some type of enjoyment from the activity to be doing it almost every day if not every day. Then the answer stared right at me while I buffed the beautiful dark cherry wood (one of those aha! Moments). I realized I love to reflect, meditate, and pray so much and the buffing of the floor allows me that time!

I must say I do get a lot of those aha moments while buffing the floor not to mention it is a great form of natural exercise. Well, there’s yet another reason and another revelation. I sometimes feel the need to multi-task. I think that when I do too much reflecting by itself without doing anything else, I can’t help but sometimes feel guilty about it (I think this is more of a confession than an aha moment). I realized that multi-tasking, in this case buffing the floor, is a great way for me to get to do more of what I enjoy….reflecting! Then I reflected why I enjoy reflecting so much at this stage of my life. Maybe it’s a necessary element of my journey through midlife. Ok I think that's enough reflecting for now. My floors are so shiny I can almost see my reflection:)

Isabella: Principal's Honor Roll

2011-04-18T13:13:00.000-07:00

Congratulations to our DD Isabella who managed to maintain a 4.0 GPA despite her grueling ballet schedule thereby earning her the Principal's Honor Roll award. She also earned the Presidential Award for physical fitness. She is a very diligent student and we are indeed very proud of her.

Coppelia Premiere

2011-04-01T21:11:00.001-07:00

All the hard work from the grueling rehearsals for Coppelia paid off and are all so worth it! These photos I purchased from Erik Tomasson Photography and the awesome reviews say it all. It was a magnificent production...from the costumes, to the sets, to the music, and the dancers...all superb!

It was certainly a wonderful opportunity and quite an honor for Isabella being a part of this glorious premiere.

Excerpts from the Reviews:

(click on the link for the complete review)

From the San Francisco Chronicle

"And let's hear it for the San Francisco Ballet School, which contributed 24 girls, all in blushing pink tulle, for the demanding combinations of the Waltz of the Golden Hours, and all looking like Makarovas in the making. This show stopping moment suggests that there's a message in giving dancing opportunities for everyone in this Galician town".

from the San Francisco Examiner

“Coppélia” is very big, featuring what seems to be the entire company, including dozens of children from the ballet school in the wedding scene and the Waltz of the Golden Hours. Decades into the future, famous dancers will include “Coppélia” in the War Memorial as stage debut on their résumés".

from the California Literary Review

"This production is, in a word — glorious! ..." But Act III really sold this production. Picture 24 little girls, in gold-sequined pink tutus and tiaras — genius. Besides looking completely adorable, the young corps performed with grace and professionalism.

What an advertisement for the San Francisco Ballet School! If I were a parent in the audience and wanted to find ballet training for my child, Act III of this Coppélia would pretty much dictate my choice.

from the San Francisco Sentinel

"In the middle of Act III comes the “Waltz of the Golden Hours” – a 7-part collection of exhibition dancing – essentially a celebration connected to the village’s dedication of a new set of bells and the wedding of Swanilda and Franz..... Opening the festivities were 24 very young ballerinas – all in amazing form, with unified gestures, precision poses, and adorned in the most exquisite tutus a little girl ever dreamed of."

Before she was a Ballerina....

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Nutcracker 2010

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I'm so happy I finally have some photos from the Nutcracker performances. Here are the beautiful photos I purchased from Erik Tomasson Photography, SFBallet's official photographer.

Merry Christmas 2010

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2 of the photos above (of the 3 boys and the one of Russ, Isabella, and myself) are courtesy of Owen Donnahoo of Most Precious Art Photography

Highlights of the Blessings of the year 2010:

"Every good and perfect gift is from above"

January

February

Amazing Grace: Russ' miraculous car accident

April

Isabella's first pointe shoe fitting

June

July

August

Family trip to Cancun
Isabella promoted from level 2 to level 4 at SFBallet

December

Isabella as a butterfly for SFBallet's Nutcracker production

Happy 11th Birthday Isabella

2010-10-20T18:38:00.000-07:00

Our family's darling angel princess is now 11 years old.

I feel so blessed having a daughter who is my angel on earth. Isabella is wise beyond her 11 years. I learn so much from her everyday. She's the one who gave me the quote "too blessed to be stressed" during one of our library days when we were in Pismo Beach back in 2007 and it has become my mantra since. She also has a lot of sense of humor (something she got from her dad:) Our conversations are filled with fun bits of wisdom. We look forward to our daily drive to and from San Francisco Ballet as it is always filled with blessed and fun chats.

One of her recent out-of-the-blue remark during our commute: "Mom, I'm so glad God gave me to you and made the doctor not tie your tubes before you had me". You see, in one of our commute conversations I mentioned that after I had her brother Ian, I asked the doctor to tie my tubes so I won't have another baby since I already have 3. The doctor said he does not advise it since I was still young then. I told her I'm so thankful that the doctor didn't grant my request. According to Isabella it was part of God's plan:) Praise the Lord God indeed for the gift of an angel daughter.

True to the saying like mother, like daughter, Isabella and I share a lot of the same interests. We enjoy many activities together. We love going to the library, reading books over tea, writing, dancing, watching movies, shopping for matching outfits and shoes:) and even exercising and cleaning together. She is truly my angel on earth.

As a student, Isabella is an ardent learner. Her passion for learning gives her the discipline and motivation in everything she chooses to do. Her 6th grade Science teacher recently wrote: "I'm enjoying Isabella very much. I totally agree that she is very self-motivated. You are lucky parents indeed. In many ways, she seems years older than her peers, but she never shows frustration with their silliness."

(see previous comments here from her other teachers)

As most of you know, she has a demanding schedule with her daily ballet training at SFB. As soon as we arrive home from ballet, she goes straight to her study room to do her homework. And what's so admirable and awesome about it is that she goes to that room full of anticipation and enthusiasm in completing her work. Then she tries to finish as efficiently as she can so that she'll have time to show me the dance combination she just learned. And when I say efficient, I mean going above and beyond what is required. Like for example, in a recent assignment, the teacher asked for sentences using at least 8 of their spelling words. Isabella had fun writing a whole story using 13 of their vocab. words. Then I remember her brother Immanuel upon checking her math work that night, served her with his own concoction of freshly blended apple/jackfruit/pineapple smoothie. You see, being the only girl, Isabella is lavished with love:) She is also an angel sister to her brothers. And I am a mom in heaven:)

Overflowing with joy and gratitude

2010-10-19T09:42:00.000-07:00

It is inspiring and heavenly to a mother's heart to witness her child's dedicated, conscientious, and passionate efforts. Isabella had more homework than normal last night (including a project for her core classes). As soon as we arrived from ballet (about 8:30pm) she's off to her study area (as always) (oh!... but not before the usual "show" of what she learned in ballet...it had to be a short one this time). She finished all her homework and projects (past 11pm) and showed me her grades online....she's striving to maintain her straight A's....a passion for learning...for dance...for life....what more can a mother ask for? I am overflowing with gratitude..."Every good and perfect gift is from above" (James 1:17)

P.S.

Another delight to a mother's heart....when all her children continuously manifest sincere love and support toward one another. Isabella is blessed with wonderful, supportive, and able brothers. She has three excellent resources for homework checking when dad is unavailable (unfortunately this is not mom's department:)). Her first line of recourse is Immanuel (since he's the one here with us...brings to mind the meaning of Immanuel's name: "God with us"). If Immanuel is unavailable (i.e. "in music"), thanks to video conferencing she can take advantage of another great resource...Phil all the way in Pismo Beach. She has not gotten to her third option, Ian, as yet (though Ian was her first possible reference before he went off to Cal Poly). They all enjoy providing love and support to their little sister and to one another....truly a great joy and pure heavenly delight to a mother's heart and soul. Praise God!

"The Truth Will Set Us Free"

2010-09-28T10:59:00.000-07:00

SFBallet students are reminded not to get their hopes up too much as there are a lot more students this year for the Nutcracker roles available. And yet Isabella is still unafraid and uninhibited to dream big. I am in awe of her confidence not because of her courage to dream big but because at such a young age her confidence is rightly placed. She believes that whatever role she gets is from God is therefore the best not just for her but for everyone concerned. This reaffirmed to me the time tested bible principle, “the truth will set you free”. In knowing and believing the truth that God gives us what is best, she feels free to dream big with confidence and without any fear, concerns or inhibitions.

First time "En Pointe"

2010-09-11T11:49:00.000-07:00

Cancun 2010

2010-08-21T17:35:00.001-07:00

Sunday - 8/15

My sweet step sister, Suzie, took us to the airport at 4am in the morning for our 6:30am flight to Cancun
Met up with our special friends, the Marquez family (ate Janette, kuya Lando, their DD Jeazelle, and mommy Esther)
Arrived in Cancun at 3:45pm and checked in at Crown Paradise Cancun (CPC) all-inclusive resort at around 5pm

Monday - 8/16

Explored Mercado 28 via a public bus....Ian needed to log in to his Cal Poly portal to sign up for his classes....and of course some authentic Mexican shopping for the rest of us.

Tuesday - 8/17

11:30 - AquaWorld
for some water sports

Unforgettable kayaking experience....it started to rain hard in the middle of our kayaking. The rough waves made paddling tougher and it took us longer going back but the scary conditions made it all more exciting.
Dinner at CPC Piazza Italian Restaurant

Wednesday - 8/18

left for Chichen Itza tour at 7:30am (2 1/2 hr. bus ride)
returned to the hotel at 6:30pm in time for dinner at Wayne's Boots Steakhouse - Phil, Ian, and kuya lando braved the mechanical bull
dancing at CPC Nitro Club

Thursday - 8/19

Russ and Isabella enjoyed the zip line

I enjoyed the pool exercise and relaxing in a hammock
The kids and I had a great time playing in the fun rough ocean waves while Russ caught up with some ZZZZ's
Dinner at CPC Sans Souci French Restaurant
Supposed Karaoke Night. Russ had been looking forward for some karaoke since we checked in but it wasn't meant to be. First, front desk gave us the wrong information making us miss karaoke night. Since this is our last night ate Janette and kuya Lando went with Russ to a karaoke bar (I was too pooped to go:) but as it turned out, the first karaoke bar was closed and the second one was having a dancing night instead of karaoke....the manager did indulge Russ one karaoke moment:)
Storm started to come

Friday - 8/20

checked out at noon
left for the airport at 12:30
once again my sweet step sister, Suzie, picked us up at SFO airport at 11:30pm

The resort is good but definitely not as good as Beaches resorts. It's hard not to compare when you have experienced a previous all inclusive resort the year before.

Our experience in Jamaica last year at a Beaches resort is much better in all aspects....convenience of water sports (we didn't have to take bus), bigger water park, much better food, and most of all, great service (we encountered some problems relating to poor service at CPC). But then again the price tag is less expensive than a Beaches vacation; so for the value, the resort is good enough.

All in all we had a great vacation. After all, a vacation is what you make of it....great friends and wonderful family....these are what matter most...these are what make a vacation blissful and a life heavenly. I am ever so grateful!

Panama Canal

2010-08-01T16:37:00.000-07:00

Bridge of the Americas

connecting North and South America

that was divided when the Panama Canal was constructed

Miraflores Locks

Panama Canal

We got the chance to witness a cargo ship carrying automobiles from Korea go through the narrow canal with only about 2 feet clearance on each side.

It was being pulled by these custom towing locomotive directed by a Panama Canal pilot

Panama 2010: Amador Causeway

2010-07-31T19:42:00.001-07:00

The Amador Causeway is a roadway and walking/biking path overlooking the entrance to the Panama Canal. It was constructed from the rocks that were removed from the construction of the Panama Canal.

After an hour of biking, Isabella and I shared a yummy chocolate banana split.... refreshing!

Panama 2010

2010-07-25T20:17:00.000-07:00

We arrived safely here in Panama yesterday, Saturday, July 24th. We will be here for 2 weeks for Isabella's summer dance intensive under Ms. Yoira Esquivel Brito and Ms. Amparo Brito, mother/daughter ballet masters.

We are staying at a bed and breakfast in Panama City together with 7 other ballet families.

Everything is in Spanish and most of the people we spoke to didn't speak English. Isabella is so thankful for the few Spanish words she learned from Dora the Explorer show. Muchas gracias Dora!

Today we toured around Panama City and visited Mis Pueblitos (My Little Villages) featuring cultural replicas of three villages that represent the main cultural influences of Panama.

Spanish Village

Caribbean Village

Indigenous Village

This place reminds of Nayong Pilipino in the Philippines that also highlights miniature versions of the Philippines and its culture.

After the tour, we went swimming at a public pool.

We headed back to the bed and breakfast around 5pm. After shower, Isabella watched ballet on you tube and started dancing.

We ended the day with a quick trip to the mall with 4 other families (we took 3 taxi cabs).

Museum of Science and Industry

2010-07-13T10:32:00.000-07:00

Sunday, July 11, 2010

I woke up early to attend church service while the kids got ready for a day of Museum fun.
After a nice breakfast at the cafe by the John Hancock building, we were off to the Museum of Science and Industry.

Science Storms Exhibit

Transportation Gallery Exhibit

Ian getting sucked into the airplane's propeller

Farm Tech Exhibit

Space Center Exhibit

U-505 Submarine Exhibit

clowning around

John Hancock Observatory

2010-07-13T09:55:00.001-07:00

Less than a block from our hotel is the renowned John Hancock Observatory. After dinner last Saturday, July 9th, we hopped on one of the fastest elevators to the 94th floor of one of the tallest buildings.

only to wash windows?:)

from Wikipedia: John Hancock Observatory is complete with full 360 degree views of the city, up to four states and over 80 miles. The floor-to-ceiling windows leave nothing between you and the view. The Observatory has Chicago's only open-air SkyWalk, where they took our 80 feet of windows and put in NASA-approved steel casing so you can feel what it's like to be outside more than 1,000 feet up.

I can't believe the kids got me to go with them. Actually, it wasn't as scary as I thought it would be. We had a great time having coffee (strawberry milk for Isabella) overlooking a fantastic view and watching fabulous fireworks.

Adler Planetarium

2010-07-13T09:38:00.000-07:00

Our 2nd weekend in Chicago was extra special. Phil arrived on Friday, July 9th. The following day, we met up with Russ' brother, Scott, and his family (wife, Danielle, sons, Zachary (19), and Wyatt (14)). They drove from Michigan to spend the day with us. It was a precious moment as it was the first time the cousins saw each other. We had a great time visiting the Adler Planetarium.

Chicago Trip - 2nd week

2010-07-13T09:07:00.000-07:00

Highlights of 2nd week Chicago trip

celebrated Ian's birthday at the Cheesecake Factory on Monday, July 5th
shopping for Isabella's new pointe shoes on Tuesday, July 6th
Phil arrived Friday, July 9th; dinner at TGI Fridays
Adler Planetarium with Russ' brother, Scott, and family - Saturday, July 10th
John Hancock Observatory; watched fireworks
Museum of Science and Industry - Sunday, July 11th

Isabella's Class Schedule

2010-07-13T08:54:00.000-07:00

Monday
9:30 - 11:00 Ballet
11:15 - 12:15 Character
12:15 - 1:00 Lunch
1:00 - 2:00 Classical Repertoire
2:10 - 3:10 Jazz
3:20 - 4:20 Pre-Pointe/Pointe

Tuesday
9:30 - 11:00 Ballet
11:15 - 12:15 Pre-Pointe/Pointe
12:15 - 1:00 Lunch
1:00 - 2:00 Classical Repertoire
2:10 - 3:10 Modern
3:20 - 4:20 Body Conditioning/Pilates

Wednesday
9:30 - 11:00 Ballet
11:15 - 12:15 Character
12:15 - 1:00 Lunch
1:00 - 2:00 Classical Repertoire
2:10 - 3:10 Jazz
3:20 - 4:20 Pre-Pointe/Pointe

Thursday
9:30 - 11:00 Ballet
11:15 - 12:15 Body Conditioning/Pilates
12:15 - 1:00 Lunch
1:00 - 2:00 Classical Repertoire
2:10 - 3:10 Modern
3:20 - 4:20 Pre-Pointe/Pointe

Friday
9:30 - 11:00 Ballet
11:15 - 12:15 Pre-Pointe/Pointe
12:15 - 1:00 Lunch
1:00 - 2:00 Classical Repertoire
2:10 - 3:10 Music Theory
3:20 - 4:20 Improvisation

Chicago Trip - Day 8

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Day 8 - Sunday, July 4, 2010 - Shedd Aquarium

Chicago Trip - Day 7

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Day 7 - Saturday - July 3, 2010 - Field Museum

Chicago Trip - Day 4, 5, 6

2010-07-03T08:01:00.000-07:00

Isabella is truly enjoying her classes. She is the first one to take a shower in the morning and always rushing us to get ready. She is so thrilled and can't wait to learn and train. After we pick her up, while walking, she is full of excitement and can't wait to tell her stories and show what she learned. As soon as we get to the hotel, she puts on her pointe shoes and shows me what she has learned with total bliss. Then she changes to different shoes from ballet flats, to jazz shoes, to character shoes to show me what she learned in each class. She does this every night....something she has done in the past after every dance class. This reaffirms her passion for this art, putting to rest the bit of worry I had about "burn out" issue I heard regarding young kids taking intensives. She even prays loudly as we walk thanking God for this opportunity. Then she thanks me and calls her dad to thank him....brings tears to my eyes. She also thanks her brother Ian for being with us. Ian has been a great "bodyguard" for us. He is so concerned for us especially his little sister. He always holds her hand and makes sure she is safe all the time. He worries if we might be running late to pick her up. He even watched Twilight for his little sister:) I feel so blessed and I am so grateful.

Day 4 - Wednesday - June 30, 2010

Ian and I stopped at the church beside our hotel.

Then we spent time at Borders with our laptops.

Foodlife at Water Tower

Day 5 - Thursday - July 1, 2010

watched Isabella from Borders across the street from Joffrey.

shopping with Ian at H&M

shopping with Belle at Zara

Day 6 - Friday - July 2, 2010

Finally started feeling better. Still has lingering cough and asthma but thank God back pain almost gone.

Shopping with Ian at Nordstrom Rack and Anne taylor

watched Twilight

pooped when we got to the hotel....ordered room service

more photos to follow. Got to go now....visiting museums today.

Chicago Trip - Day 3

2010-07-03T07:16:00.000-07:00

Day 3 - Tuesday - June 29, 2010

Sorry not much pictures of the day. I started having cough and asthma not to mention my back pain still bothering me. But I refuse to allow ailments to stop us from enjoying this experience.

Our normal morning schedule consists of taking the Subway to Joffrey Ballet, breakfast at our hotel room or at McDonald's. Then Ian and I will either take the Subway back or walk back to the hotel. Today we walked back. I was determined to get my exercise (I promised myself before we left for Chicago) despite the ailments. Crashed as soon as we arrived the hotel, of course:)

Our afternoon schedule consists of walking to Joffrey to pick up Isabella at 4:20pm. Then we either stop at Subway for sandwich or at Foodlife at the Water Tower.

After picking up Isabella today we stopped at Russian Pointe dance shop to purchase a new jazz shoes (she thought her old one was ok but started hurting after a while of dancing...too small).

We got the chance to stop at a penny machine for Isabella's collection.

here's some photos from yesterday's escapades...Isabella trying to finish her "treasure hunt" at the Millennium Park.

Chicago Trip - Day 2

2010-06-30T10:02:00.001-07:00

2nd day - Monday - June 28, 2010

Isabella's first day at Joffrey Ballet. We took the subway from Chicago St. station to Lake St.

After dropping Isabella off, Ian and I went exploring the beautiful city of Chicago. We took the water taxi at Michigan St. to Navy Pier.

Then we walked along Lakeshore Drive to our hotel (approx. 1.2 miles)...I was pooped by time we got to the hotel:)

We rested the rest of the time as I wasn't feeling very well. My back pain is still not fully healed from back spasms I started experiencing last Thursday.

We picked up Isabella at 4:20. I thought she was going to be exhausted after a whole day of class but she wanted to go around Millennium Park to do a "treasure hunt" activity. So we went walking around the park and stopping at each clue as she checks off her list. (Sorry I don't have pictures....forgot to put card back in the camera:)

After circling around the park, we walked back to the hotel. I was really exhausted by the time we got to the hotel (we walked a total of almost 3 miles). It's really tough with the back pain still bothering me.

Isabella said she enjoyed her classes very much....she even got to go on pointe for the first time.

Until next post...Stay tuned...

Chicago Trip - Day 1

2010-06-27T18:58:00.001-07:00

Day 1 - Sunday - June 27, 2010

Millennium Park

Isabella on a "treasure hunt"

at the Chicago Cultural Center

End of Year evaluations for Isabella

2010-06-21T16:05:00.000-07:00

SFBallet dance teacher comments:

Isabella is a wonderful student to work with and very talented. She has grown so much during Level 2. Her technique, physique and adaptability exceed the requirements for Level 3. Needs to keep working on her corrections but she is ready to be promoted to Level 4. Wonderful Showcase!

5th grade teacher comments:

Isabella is a true gift for any teacher to have. She always tries her best, can balance a multitude of activities and excels at anything she tries to do. I have no doubt her future will be bright and that she will do whatever she gets her mind to.

Ian's High School Graduation

2010-06-20T18:56:00.000-07:00

graduation ceremonies started at 9am

here we are while waiting for Ian to come out after the ceremonies

as soon as Ian got out, we headed to Newark buffet for a family lunch

Then we headed home to prepare for Ian's celebration. We picked up balloons and cakes and we even had the chance to browse at Best Buy for Ian's gaming computer system. Phil said he will build it for him and make it "the ultimate" gaming system:)

Phil: "Anyway, you're going with mom and Belle to Chicago for 3 weeks. I should have it done by the time you come back".

Ian was happy at the prospect knowing his brother's expertise and capabilities.

Here's grad and mom posing in the backyard:)

Then we headed to our venue: City Beach in Fremont. Everything was all set when we got there. All we had to do was set up our entertainment system (i.e. karaoke:) Unfortunately, I left the plug at home. It was all good...there were plenty of things to do....basketball, badminton, pool table, foosball, table tennis, and huge jolly jumpers. This is why we selected this venue. The kids love these activities. Everyone enjoyed playing. More photos here and here.

Inside the Program:

Message from the family

To our guests….

Thank you for joining us in celebrating our youngest son’s graduation. We are indeed very proud of Ian’s accomplishments. As some of you know, we moved to Pismo Beach before the end of his first semester at Logan High, thus adversely affecting his grades. He worked hard at Arroyo Grande High School despite the setback and undesired change. And today, we celebrate his determination and perseverance. Thank you for sharing in our joy. Blessings to you all.

To our graduate….

Dearest Ian,

We are so very proud of all your hard work, perseverance, and patience. As you move on to the next chapter of your life, may you remain the good person that you are. As you continue to strive and chase your dreams, always remember that your family will always be here to support and love you. Congratulations son!

Message from the graduate

To my family and friends….

This is it! I am so happy I’m finally done with high school! I am looking forward to the next phase of my life when I attend Cal Poly in the fall. I plan to major in Business Administration with a concentration on Information Systems Management. I am excited at the prospect of experiencing dorm life during my first year. My education thus far has been a fruitful learning experience not only academically but emotionally as well. I am blessed to have the loving support of wonderful family and friends like you. With that said, I feel well prepared for the road ahead. I believe that your encouragement and prayers will continue to be a key part of my success in future endeavors. For all your support, past, present, and future, I will forever be grateful.

Thank you so much for coming to celebrate with me.

24th Wedding Anniversary

2010-06-20T18:19:00.000-07:00

Last week, Russ and I had the blessed chance to celebrate our 24th wedding anniversary in the beautiful San Francisco where we first met.

We left the house around 2pm and took the train to the city, something we haven't done in years.

We got off at Montgomery station and walked toward Howard Street as we reminisced the time when we first met at Computer Learning Center where he was my instructor.

We checked in at the beautiful InterContinental Hotel by Moscone Center where he proposed to me 24 years ago. Thanks to my step brother, Alvin, who is the Regional Director for InterContinental hotels, our room was upgraded to the 27th floor, providing unobstructive views of the beautiful San Francisco bay.

After we checked in, we walked across the street and had a fabulous lunch at Buca di Beppo Italian Restaurant.

Then we walked to Market Street for some shopping at Westfield San Francisco Centre.

The following morning we had Japanese food for lunch before heading to the Bart station on Powell.

It was a wonderful and precious 24th wedding anniversary celebration.

SFBallet Student Showcase

2010-06-08T19:51:00.000-07:00

Here's a photo of Isabella from the recent showcase

I ordered from Erik Tomasson Photography

more show photos can be found here

And here's a photo of my mom and me gallivanting in the City

taken by dad Dennis after we dropped off Isabella

Pismo Beach - June 5, 2010

2010-06-08T13:03:00.003-07:00

Our bible study group has been wanting to visit our Pismo Beach home. I was concerned that we won't be able to squeeze it into our very busy summer schedule. But we were able to make it happen this past weekend. It was short but a lot of fun.

My mom and I left for Pismo Friday afternoon so we can prepare the house. Isabella still had her final Saturday SFBallet class. It was our first time being away from each other (we kept calling and texting each other until bedtime:) Russ took her to SFBallet on Saturday together with Ian and Immanuel and they all drove straight to Pismo after class.

The bible study group arrived around 11am. Only 5 of them could make it: Gabby, Fe, Nita, Vicky and Cesar. After lunch and a short rest, we headed for the beach.

Then Russ and the kids arrived and met up with us at Shell Beach around 3pm. They started playing touch football while we started the barbecue. It was a sight to behold for a mom like me. It always melts my heart when I see them having fun together. Truly a wonderful blessing I am so grateful for.

After chowing down grilled steak and fish, we headed to the beach where the boys went surfing and bodyboarding.

While Isabella entertained herself dancing on the soft beach sand.

All in all it was a wonderful and blessed day.

The following day, Sunday, our bible study group left early around 7:30am as they were worried about the dogs they left home alone:). After they left we started preparing to spend the remaining time for another blessed family bonding. We headed to Port San Luis in Avila Beach but not before a quick stop at Isabella's CDMA dance teacher, Ms. Kathy's, home at Shell Beach. Ms. Kathy and her garage is a huge part of Isabella as a dancer. It is where she started the beginnings of her journey toward her passion for dance. Ms. Kathy was the first one to recognize and encourage her talent. Isabella trained with Ms. Kathy for two and a half years, the first year in the garage.

here's an old photo with Isabella (the smallest one) training/stretching in Ms. Kathy's garage.

After a wonderful "catch up" talk, we were off to Port San Luis where the boys tried to go fishing.

While Russ and I savored our blessed family togetherness .

The weather was too hot so the fishing escapade didn't last long and we ended up spending time over lunch at this "hole in the wall" place on the port. All in all, it was another blessed family time.

And oh my mom had fun picking some rock crabs...one of her faves.

My mom loves the sea...sea food, sea activities (i.e. boating, fishing, etc.) Last week, she and dad Dennis caught this sea creature. My mom wished it was something they could eat but they ended up putting it back in the ocean as they didn't know what it was.

SFBallet Student Showcase Update

2010-05-29T08:12:00.001-07:00

In my previous post below I ended with a prayer request. I claimed God's promise in John 16:24, The Assurance of Answered Prayer: "Until now you have not asked for anything in my name. Ask and you will receive, and your joy will be complete." And last night we received the assurance of answered prayer and our joy was indeed complete. God is so good and amazing. Not only did a ticket manifest for my DH Russ to be able to watch our daughter's moment of glory....there were exactly 3 seats and they were the first 2 rows. I sat with Russ the first half. Isabella came in the 2nd half and sat with dad while I moved to the vacant seat in front. God is so awesome.

It is so amazing how God orchestrated and set the stage for this answered prayer to happen. I am so thankful for the concern of ballet moms who thought of us and helped spread the word that we needed tickets desperately. One ballet dad from our class had an extra adult and child tickets as his friends couldn't make it. It was exactly what we prayed for (thanks to my bible study group and special friends).

I claimed the prayer and asked Russ to come with us with pure trust that God will provide. And He gave more than we asked. I am in awe and deeply grateful. Praise God!

SFBallet Student Showcase....A-M-A-Z-I-N-G

2010-05-27T12:31:00.000-07:00

OMG! The student showcase last night was incredible. Awesome. Amazing.

It was extra exciting for me. It's our first time and I knew that our DD, Isabella, was going to be front and center. Her class is the very first number as they are the youngest group. Even though I knew her staging, when the curtain opened and I saw her right front and center by herself amongst 46 students, it was a sight to behold for a mom like me. It was a very short piece but it certainly was our daughter's very own moment of glory and I couldn't be prouder. Unfortunately my husband missed it. Traffic and misplaced ticket kept him from getting to the show. The shows are all sold out but I'm not losing hope. I am praying that something will manifest for him tomorrow and be able to watch our daughter's moment of glory.

The show was a huge success. I was truly in awe of the amazing choreography and execution. A huge thank you goes out to the awesome teachers who have given her great training and inspiration. What a blessing!

more to follow....I have to prepare my little ballerina for tonight's show. For now here's a photo I managed to take during intermission.

NEED & GREED

2010-05-21T09:32:00.000-07:00

I want to share this email I just received today from a dear bible study friend. Thanks to ate Fe Steinberg for sharing this beautiful short story. Happy Reading everyone and I hope you enjoy it as much as I did.

NEED & GREED

This one makes so much sense...

A boat docked in a tiny Mexican fishing village.

A tourist complimented the local fishermen
on the quality of their fish and asked
how long it took him to catch them.

"Not very long." they answered in unison.

"Why didn't you stay out longer and catch more?"

The fishermen explained that their small catches were
sufficient to meet their needs and those of their families.

"But what do you do with the rest of your time?"

"We sleep late, fish a little, play with our children,
and take siestas with our wives.
In the evenings, we go into the village to see our friends, have a few drinks, play the guitar, and sing a few songs.

We have a full life."

The tourist interrupted,

"I have an MBA from Harvard and I can help you!
You should start by fishing longer every day.
You can then sell the extra fish you catch.
With the extra revenue, you can buy a bigger boat."

"And after that?"

"With the extra money the larger boat will bring,
you can buy a second one and a third one
and so on until you have an entire fleet of trawlers.
Instead of selling your fish to a middle man,
you can then negotiate directly with the processing plants
and maybe even open your own plant.

You can then leave this little village and move to Mexico City , Los Angeles , or even New York City !

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From there you can direct your huge new enterprise."

"How long would that take?"

"Twenty, perhaps twenty-five years." replied the tourist.

"And after that?"

"Afterwards? Well my friend, that's when it gets really interesting, " answered the tourist, laughing. "When your business gets really big, you can start buying and selling stocks and make millions!"

"Millions? Really? And after that?" asked the fishermen.

"After that you'll be able to retire,
live in a tiny village near the coast,
sleep late, play with your children,
catch a few fish, take a siesta with your wife
and spend your evenings drinking and enjoying your friends."

"With all due respect sir, but that's exactly what we are doing now. So what's the point wasting twenty-five years?" asked the Mexicans.

And the moral of this story is:

Know where you're going in life....
you may already be thereJ

The Joy of Mother's Day 2010

2010-05-09T20:35:00.000-07:00

My mom and I woke up to a wonderful breakfast prepared by my darling husband and daughter. They timed it perfectly so that we have enough time to prepare for the 9am service. Russ even woke up at 5am to shop at Wal-Mart after realizing we didn't have flour for the banana bread. They started early to prepare my favorite breakfast food: longanisa (Philippine pork sausage), bacon, eggs and freshly baked banana bread. No wonder Isabella was interviewing me on the way home from SFBallet as to my favorite breakfast food. It was a indeed a blessed, wonderful Mother's Day gift of love. Our son Phil even came to visit 2 weekends in a row (he was also here last weekend to watch the Mayweather vs. Mosely boxing fight with us at the Magcale's home. My son and I are Pacquiao fans:) It is such a blessing sharing wonderful moments with our kids. Everyday is Mother's Day for me.

The Joy of Reading to Kindergartners

2010-05-08T18:50:00.000-07:00

Reading is yet another one of Isabella's many passions. She loves to read aloud with feelings and expressions. So at school, she jumps at the chance to read to kindergartners every available break times (the photo below is courtesy of kindergarten teacher, Ms. Schoon). Isabella also jumped at the opportunity to record books on CD's for the library. Recording books on her computer is her newest past time at home.

First Pointe Shoe Fitting

2010-04-30T22:21:00.000-07:00

First Pointe Shoe Fitting: A Ballerina's Dream

What could be more exciting?

Isabella has been dreaming of this day since "forever":) Finally she got her wish last week. We left early for class last Tuesday to stop at SFDancewear. It was extra fun as we shopped together with friend/classmate, Sabrina, who will also be attending summer program in Panama.

Isabella tried on several shoes (though there were limited selections for her size). She finally found a perfect fit in Grishko 2007. Isabella is super excited and couldn't wait for the time when she can finally go en pointe. In the meantime, she hugs the pointe shoes and shows them off to her brothers:)

Easter 2010

2010-04-05T13:18:00.000-07:00

After Easter Sunday service at New Life Church, the kids and I had brunch and headed at the Dinosaur Caves Park for easter egg hunt...or so we thought. The event was Saturday and not Sunday (lol). Oh well, it got us all together and that's really what is important anyway. Bless my kids hearts...even the big boys made the most out of it by enjoying the park. See for yourself...

and of course I savored the moment and the view (it was a gorgeous day) even though it was my fault for confusing the dates:)

Russ arrived from Union City shortly after and met us at the Park.

Leaving from the park, Phil discovered he was missing his phone. He remembered it fell from his jacket pocket while we were at church. Thinking the same thing happened, we searched the park but to no avail.

Russ, Isabella, and I went grocery shopping while Phil drove home in hopes of somehow finding his phone there. I prayed for him to find his phone and sure enough it was found. Ian spotted it in the backyard. Phil laid his jacket there when he tried to fix our backyard umbrella during our pit stop after church. And the rest of the day was blissful Easter 2010 memory.

{On Simplicity}

2010-04-05T10:06:00.000-07:00

In character, in manner, in style, in all things,
the supreme excellence is simplicity.

-Henry Wadsworth Longfellow-

Is it not in the most absolute simplicity
that the real genius plies its pinions the most wonderfully?

-E . T. A. Hoffman-

Just as happiness is a key to success

Simplicity is a key to happiness

Art and Science strive for simplicity

the more things we understand

the simpler everything becomes

Looking back

we realize with great awe

what once appeared as complexities

now reveal themselves as simplicity

-Imelda Phillips-

The Joys of Commuting and Gallivanting

2010-03-29T17:46:00.000-07:00

One of the simple joys from the whole SFBallet experience is our increased bonding time. We take advantage of our commute time by engaging in meaningful conversations. There are times when I get blown away by the wisdom that comes out of my DD, Isabella, and I can't believe she's only 10 years old.

We also try to take the opportunity to spend Saturday afternoons, after Isabella's ballet class, gallivanting in the city (particularly Union Square). We normally have lunch at the Cheesecake Factory and then we do some shopping at Macy's.

Last Saturday was extra fun because it was Macy's 64th Annual Flower Show, "Spring is in the Air" event. Isabella also enjoyed the Easter cookie decorating event sponsored by Palace Hotel.

Field Trip: Marine Science Institute

2010-03-20T21:52:00.000-07:00

On Thursday, March 11th, Isabella had the wonderful opportunity being a scientist for an afternoon aboard the 90-foot research vessel, the Robert G. Brownlee. It was a very educational and fun-filled afternoon of Discovery Voyage as they joined the Marine Science Institute (MSI) crew for an expedition of the San Francisco Estuary. Isabella was delighted to report that there was a TV crew present at the time and she had the chance to be interviewed.

Isabella sent me this photo taken from her cell phone.

Then and Now Photos

2010-03-19T18:45:00.000-07:00

Russ and Me

Then: 1986 aboard a boat watching 4th of July fireworks

in the middle of Michigan and Canada

Now: at Buona Tavola in downtown SLO celebrating Father's day 2009

Phil

Immanuel

Ian

Isabella

Mommy/Daughter

Imelda

Then: 1984 - St. Mary's College, Quezon City Philippines

Exploratorium Field Trip

2010-02-17T11:23:00.000-08:00

Yesterday, Tuesday, Feb. 17 (day after 4-day President's holiday weekend), I had the pleasure of chaperoning 7 of Isabella's classmates to their 5th grade field trip to the Exploratorium at the Palace of Fine Arts in San Francisco.

Exploratorium: the museum of science, art and human perception

Sweet Retreat: Mini Vacation Spots at Home

2010-02-14T22:48:00.000-08:00

Inspired by The Inspired Room's Winter Home Tip: Create Mini-Destinations in your Home

The mini-destinations in our home is my sweet retreat and own place of comfort where I retire to for my precious quiet time.

Mini-Destinations in our Home by the Bay

Vacation Spot in our own Backyard

Vacation Spot in our Masters Bedroom

Mini-Destinations in our Home by the Beach

Vacation Spot: Sitting area in Masters Bedroom

Vacation Spot: Backyard

SFBallet 2010 Season Program 1: Swan Lake

2010-02-14T19:34:00.000-08:00

San Francisco Ballet in Tomasson's Swan Lake. © Erik Tomasson

Here's another overdue post....Swan Lake at the War Memorial on Jan. 26th.

After Isabella's Tuesday class, we met up with great friends...Cecile, Pinky, Tim, and Krystn.

The ever so thoughtful and generous Ms. Pinky treated us to a wonderful Japanese dinner at Shima Sushi at the Opera Plaza...a great treat, indeed, not to mention a precious pasalubong...a beautiful pair of chocolate colored pearl earrings. Thanks a bunch ate Pinky!

Then we were off to a fabulous evening at the ballet. SFBallet's Swan Lake is a masterpiece...everyone and everything in it is incredible...the dancers, the scenery, the music, down to the costumes.

click here for The Story of Swan Lake

It is a story ballet in four acts. Isabella was so inspired, so much so that though she was tired from her class and it was close to midnight by the time we got home, she still had the energy to dance in efforts of imitating the inspiring ballet. She especially love the grand pas de deux and the infamous breathtaking 30-some fouettes.

Swan Lake is truly an inspiring masterpiece. And it surely was a lovely evening shared with great friends.

Nutcracker 2009: Madame Du Cirque Buffoons

2010-02-14T17:53:00.000-08:00

Photos by Erik Tomasson Photography

Nutcracker 2009

2010-02-13T21:21:00.000-08:00

This post is over a month delayed...but it's better late than never. And at least I was able to blog about the opening night on December 8th.

We survived all of Isabella's 16 performances with flying colors. It is an experience we will forever treasure. I attended all performances in different capacities: as an audience, as backstage volunteer, ballet shop volunteer, and as Club Nut volunteer.

As an Audience

As an audience I had the privilege watch the show several times with people closest to my heart.

The first one of course was opening night when I watched with my mom and dad Dennis. My friend, Owen, and her family came to watch as well.

The second one was on the 17th with my BFF, Cecile, and her DD and Isabella's BFF, Krystn.

We watched the matinee show after a delightful lunch at Shima Sushi courtesy of Cecile. We ended this memorable day over coffee at Arlequin Cafe. It was hard parting ways after such a special time but Isabella had to go to her class and the evening show after that.

Thanks to my pro photog BFF, our lovely time was captured in beautiful professional photographs. And as if all that was not enough, she designed wonderful layouts perfect for the scrapbook album she made for Isabella. Thanks oodles BFF!

The third one was with hubby and the boys on the 19th.

This is yet another special day. I always feel so elated when I have all my babies with me (sorry boys...you know you will always and forever be mommy's babies...even though you are all much taller than mom now). The boys and Russ met us at the ballet school and we picked up Isabella from Club Nut to have dinner at Shima Sushi.

The boys were all so proud of their baby sister. Our boys are not the type to watch a ballet:) It's all for their beloved baby sister. As far as these brothers are concerned, the clowns had the best part in the show.

I also got a chance to watch a couple more shows from the box seats as a perk of working as ballet shop volunteer.

As a Backstage Chaperon

Supervising the wonderful young clowns backstage was an enjoyable and worthwhile opportunity. I volunteered so much they all started calling me mom...I was so touched. It was so fun watching these "little professionals" at work in their element.

This is their usual day:

They come in to the War Memorial and check in with their Nutcracker badges. Then they sign-in in their appropriate sign up sheet.
We then take the elevator to the 6th floor to their assigned dressing room. We wait for a call from make-up.

As soon as make-up is ready for them, we make our way down to the basement. They go in to this room that looks like a beauty/hair salon complete with salon chairs and professional make-up artists. The girls apply their own foundation and then they take a seat in any available salon chair, and their respective make-up artist applies the rest of their make-up.
Then they move to hair to an available hair artist for their clown hat.
We then wait for their wardrobe call. While waiting, the girls pass the time by playing card games. They also get to see Drosselmeyer being lifted up to the stage using heavy duty hydraulics and fog machine.
Then they all proceed excitedly to wardrobe as soon as they get the call. They then put on their respective costumes all prepared in a rack with their names on them with the help of the costume mistress as needed.
Then their moment comes when they get to show their passion for this art on the big stage. The moment they get off the stage they get "hi-fives" from the other dancers and their teacher.
Then they make their way back in reverse order: hair, to take off their hats; wardrobe to take off their costumes; make-up, to clean their beautiful baby faces; then back to their dressing rooms to gather their belongings.

As a Ballet Shop Volunteer

As a ballet shop volunteer, I got the opportunity to watch the show from the box seats. I was even able to get Isabella in time to watch the grand pas de deux with me from the box seat.

As a Club Nut Volunteer

Club Nut is a service provided to the families of the student dancers, organized and staffed by ballet school parents and BRAVO volunteers. It is a safe and fun place for the children to rest, eat and play between their appearances in the matinee and evening performances of Nutcracker.

Isabella had a great time doing arts and crafts and playing twister with her friends at Club Nut.

Other Meaningful Nutcracker Memories

Isabella will also remember the day when her 5th grade teacher came to watch a matinee show and brought her flowers at Club Nut.

On the same day her teacher came to watch, my bible study group also came to watch during the evening show.

There was also one time when I volunteered during a Family Performance Night.

Isabella and I will always remember helping prepare toys to be handed out to the first 500 children. Then during intermission, I helped serve cookies and drinks in the lobby for the audience. One fellow volunteer gave me a ticket to watch the show. You would think I would be all "Nutcrackered out":)...nah...I could never get tired of those adorable and talented clowns.

Guardian Angel

2010-02-12T08:02:00.000-08:00

He has a guardian angel for sure!

This is part of a message I received from Ms. Tara (one of Isabella's beloved dance teachers at CDMA). It reminded me of a piece of story I failed to mention on my blog regarding Russ' car accident. Russ said that while he was being checked after the accident, there was a white bunny sitting by his car. When the paramedics asked him if it was his, and he said no, they attempted to get the bunny but it ran away. We can't help but think the white bunny might have been a sign of his guardian angel. Thank you dear heavenly Father for your supernatural protection.

Amazing Grace

2010-02-10T13:02:00.001-08:00

God's amazing grace...it's the only explanation how my husband walked out of this car accident of this magnitude with just very few minor scratches. The paramedics and policemen on the scene couldn't believe it either.

It happened on highway 101 in Salinas on his usual weekly trip to Pismo Beach every Sunday (this time it was very early Monday morning). My DH, Russ, passed out and woke up being pulled out from his wrecked car.

AMAZING GRACE...WE ARE TRULY GRATEFUL!

He has a guardian angel for sure!

Impromptu L.A. Trip and The Chain of Poncho-Giving Kindness

2010-02-01T09:40:00.000-08:00

Part of my New Year's list of plans/goals is a ballet summer intensive program for Isabella. She is very dedicated and passionate in this art form and I promised her I will give her all the support I can give. Around mid January, I started searching (googleing) for schools offering dance summer programs (San Francisco Ballet does not have one for her age level). The two other premiere ballet schools in the U.S. offering summer intensives for Isabella's age group are the American Ballet Theater (ABT) in New York and the Joffrey Ballet in Chicago. We missed the audition date for ABT (and I thought I was starting early with my planning); luckily, Joffrey Ballet has a schedule for an audition in L.A. on January 30th.

We did not decide to go until Thursday, the 28th, when I went ahead and booked a hotel room for the following day (my Worldpoints from Amex came in handy:). I asked the boys if they will accompany us for the trip. Even Immanuel who is almost always busy with his own schedule was willing to come with us.

On the day of the trip, I had to miss bible study...Isabella stayed home from school with a tummy ache. I took Ian to school for his Finals. Then it was on to housework and preparations for the trip. I drafted an itinerary complete with driving times and fun times for after the auditions.

We pretty much followed the schedule I drafted but we also remained flexible for a stress-free mini vacation.

We picked up Ian from school at around 2:30pm and left straight from there to San Luis Obispo where we met up with Phil for dinner at Firestone Grill around 6:00pm. Phil helped maximize our time by ordering dinner for us before we got there. The boys rode with Phil back to Pismo while Belle and I went to get gas at Costco. We left Pismo around 7:30. Phil drove and we arrived in our hotel in downtown L.A. at around 11pm. We had no trouble going to sleep.

The next day we rushed to the auditions after continental breakfast and power prep fighting for one bathroom. We made it to the audition site at the Dorothy Chandler Pavilion at the L.A. Music Center just in the nick of time for the 9am audition time for her age group.

Isabella said she had fun at the auditions and learned new combinations. The teacher was "very nice and very good." She said he called out her number and said: "great job number 29!"

here she is posing outside the venue after the audition

We debated where to spend the rest of our mini weekend vacation...it was a toss up between Universal Studios and Disney. We decided to go Disney because it is open until late while Universal closes at 6pm.

here the kids obliged to pose for a photo before our first stop in Frontierland

They even got me to ride Splash Mountain.

The rest is blissful history of fun family time at Disneyland until 9:30pm (we did not make it until 11pm as planned:).

And from 11am to 2:30pm the following day, Sunday, at California Adventures.

There is one particular story I want to share that happened during our last ride before leaving California Adventures. In my schedule, I had planned for us to leave the park by 2pm. And by 2pm, though we started an hour late, we accomplished all that we planned and we're right on schedule. But after our last supposed ride, "Soaring", Isabella begged us if we could go for one more last ride and go on the "Rapids" ride again. She won, of course, but Ian and Immanuel did not want to go...they didn't want to get wet (can you imagine they're scared of cold water lol) As we were handing them our bags and sweaters, a lady asked us if we want their ponchos. So Ian and Immanuel got to join us at the fun ride complete with ponchos to protect them from getting soaked (bless that lady's heart).

Coming out from the ride, Phil asks: "hey mom! are you going to pass on the ponchos to others who may want them?" What a great idea! I started offering the ponchos to incoming "rafters" but no one wanted them. As we were walking to go out of the park, a man in a wheelchair asked us if we still needed our ponchos. We were very happy to give it to him and he was delighted saying "yay! now we won't get soaked!". Phil called it the "Chain of Poncho-Giving Kindness".

We had lunch at a buffet outside the park and finally bid goodbye to L.A. around 3:30pm. We dropped off Phil and left Pismo around 7:30pm, arriving Union city at 10:30pm. Again, we didn't have any trouble going to sleep.

It was a indeed a blessed impromptu audition and mini weekend vacation!

(More funny photos of this trip if you click on the photo tab)

SF Ballet Class Observation

2010-01-15T11:35:00.000-08:00

Twice per year, parents/guardians are invited into the studio to observe class. This is an opportunity to experience ballet class from start to finish: barre and centre. This observation is NOT open to the public (friends, etc.), but is for parents/guardians to observe their student's progress.

Last night we had the privilege attending our first class observation at SFBallet. It was a thrilling experience for Russ and me. We are so proud of Isabella's focus, dedication, and overall progress. We are also very pleased with, and in awe of, the quality of training SFBallet provides. The live piano accompaniment is awe-inspiring, not to mention the teacher's prominent training, experience, dedication, and passion, evident in her superb teaching technique.

Isabella has been very fortunate having been blessed with the great training she has had thus far. Besides classes at SFBallet 3x a week, she also has the benefit of training at Ballet Petit twice a week. And of course, prior to SFBallet (before our move back here in the Bay Area), the root of her ballet inspiration, her two and a half years (1/07 - 6/09) of superb training from CDMA in the Central Coast.

Next week is evaluation time at SFBallet.

Every student in Levels 1 through 8 receives two written evaluations per year. The evaluations will include information on the student’s technical development, attendance, conduct, and potential. In addition, each student will have one conference with his or her primary teacher and the student’s parent/guardian.

We'll keep you posted. Ballet is here to stay for Isabella and we are here to support and encourage her in any way we can.

Phil....Hero at the Beach

2010-01-15T10:22:00.001-08:00

Last Sunday our son, Phil, decided to go boogie boarding at the beach. It was his first time back after a long time since he started working last August. When he was about ready to go home he heard voices calling for help. He saw a man drowning with his clothes on. Apparently the man jumped in looking for his kids who had gone surfing. According to Phil the waves were fierce at that point and the man's clothing did not help the situation. Phil did not hesitate to come to his rescue and lifted him up to his board. According to Phil he was already tired at that point since he had been boogie boarding for quite a while. He hoped for a push from the waves and it came for them. The paramedics and lifeguards came as well. He said people were congratulating him all the way to his car. When Russ told co-workers at their work, one of the Sys. Admin. said he saw the whole thing at the beach from afar and did not realize it was Phil. They all congratulated him at work as well. I believe Phil was sent back to the beach that day for that very purpose. God is so good.

Send In The Clowns

2009-12-11T11:00:00.000-08:00

photo from The San Francisco Chronicle

photo caption:

Even the youngest dancers invest their "Nutcracker" performance with vigor. The ballet plays through Dec. 27. in San Francisco.

And The San Francisco Examiner writes:

an amazing cast of disciplined little dancers that own the show at times, and the scene-stealing performance of the high-flying "Russian Trepak Bear", who comes out of Madame Du Cirque's dress....

Full article available here

SF Ballet Nutcracker Opening Night...Magical!

2009-12-09T10:33:00.001-08:00

I cannot even begin to describe my excitement over the Opening Night of the much anticipated Nutcracker production of SF Ballet. Our excitement have been building since last September when Isabella auditioned for a role in this magical production. Isabella's enthusiasm and dedication is so evident in her attendance. She never missed a single rehearsal and was on time and ready for each call. And last night was her most anticipated call...the curtain call for opening night. Isabella had the time of her life performing for a packed audience at the War Memorial Opera House.

Our day was just as magical as the Nutcracker. We will cherish and remember it for years to come. My mom and dad Dennis were with us to share in this magical day for Isabella (Russ was in San Luis Obispo; we're scheduled to watch as a family on the 19th).

Isabella's magical day started with a dress rehearsal from 12:30-3:30. As soon as we entered the intersection of Grove and Van Ness and saw the War Memorial Opera House adorned with giant Nutcrackers, we couldn't contain our excitement. Isabella and I started screaming and giggling.

After dropping Isabella off, we decided to calm our excitement and headed to Macy's in Union Square. We somehow found ourselves in the cosmetics department where we ended up having our make-up done (my mom and I). After our own magical moment of skin care and make-up application, we were off to pick up Isabella. She was so excited to tell us that they rehearsed with a full orchestra.

We then headed for early dinner at Max's Opera Cafe together with two of her fellow clowns and their families.

After dinner we rushed to their normal ballet class. Their regular class time is from 5:45 to 7:00. The three of them were allowed to leave class early to head to the War Memorial Opera House across the street. They were instructed to sign in like little professionals and head on to their assigned dressing room where they were to wait for hair, make up , and wardrobe calls.

As for us adults, we went to the War Memorial around 6:00. We met up with Owen and her family. Her two sons, Josh and Troy (my godson), are very sweet kids. Troy is so precious and couldn't wait to see Belle. It was also nice to have met Owen's boyfriend, Paul.

It was our first time at the beautiful War Memorial Opera House. I made a mental note of the moment...where we were seated, what we were wearing (including my special purse which I will talk about in a separate blog), the decor, and everything else I could remember. It was surely magical...not only was it my first time, my darling daughter was part of the performance!

As soon as the music from the live orchestra started, I had goosebumps all over. It was truly a wonderful production. Act I ended with beautiful dancing "Snowflakes" together with very talented Snow King and Queen.

When Act II started, I felt like screaming with excitement. By the time the Russian Dancers entered (which means the clowns were on the wings), the word excitement is an understatement. When the clowns entered jumping and cartwheeling, the audience, packed with moms, dads, and kids, were all clapping (I would have done a cartwheel myself at that point... if I could). Isabella was in character. She was proud to be a clown. Her pride and joy showed in each step and gesture. And I, in all my glorious excitement, was a shining mother.

It was truly an unforgettable night for us....magical, indeed.

(sorry I don't have photos...but will post some as soon as I am able)

click here for the review from The SF Examiner

Isabella's Nutcracker Performance Schedule

2009-12-02T10:23:00.000-08:00

Finally! SF Ballet Nutcracker casting and schedule is posted!

Isabella is set to perform at the War Memorial Opera House for a total of 16 shows including opening night and Christmas Eve.

She will be in Act II as one of Madame Du Cirque's eight clowns to dance with a big bear.

Tickets are available at SFBallet.org

her schedule is underlined in black.

Hope you can catch her and hope you enjoy the show.

Happy Halloween '09

2009-11-05T11:41:00.000-08:00

Another creative halloween year for us. Isabella is a boom box this year (her own idea). We worked on it the night before her halloween parade after her SF ballet class.

She said it was a hit at school. Schoolmates would push the play button and she would personally play their requested song, tapping on the sides to drum the beat. Creative eh?

Kuya Phil came to help her carve a pumpkin. This year's design: "puking" pumpkin:)

Presenting...Our Puking Pumpkin

check out last year's "mooning" pumpkin

Isabella and I went trick-or-treating with our respective BFF's, dear ate Cecile with her DD, Krystn. We had fun collecting the girls' candy stash to last them the entire year (or so we hope:) We also had a great time looking at decorated "haunted" homes. Then we went home and the girls had fun trading candies.

The precious halloween night was followed by another precious day...my birthday.

My day started with a bang...precious greetings from wonderful friends and family...including birthday song from Tess and Steven from Pismo over the cell phone.

Then we were off to church. Being that it was the first Sunday, birthdays and anniversaries for the month are recognized. Isabella stood up and announced my special day. Then my dear tita Rose, my spiritual mentor, prepared a special fish dish for me (she knows I love to eat but not to cook:)

Arriving home from church I was surprised with gifts from my BFF, dear ate Cecile, including a delectable cake from Red Ribbon, my fave...choco mocha crunch...yummy!

After church we celebrated my birthday at World Gourmet Restaurant in Fremont.

My day was ended with a wonderful visit from no other than my BFF, ate Cecile.

It was a wonderful birthday for me. I am so blessed. Thank you dear Lord for the blessing of great family and friends.

Isabella's 10th Birthday Bash

2009-10-26T11:45:00.001-07:00

Isabella's 10th Birdthday party this Saturday was a huge success.

Thanks to the help of wonderful family and friends.

Here are some few photos I managed to take.

delectable mocha/chocolate photo birthday cake from Goldilocks

yes, the photo is an edible marshmallow frosting

Photo by Cecile of Papelle Photographie

Our backyard

decorated with the help of my GFF from Pismo Beach, Tessie.

The yummy food prepared by my wonderful mom
with the help of dad Dennis,
auntie Virgie visiting all the way from New York,
and Flor all the way from the Philippines.

menu included

my mom's vegetable lumpia, pork and chicken adobo,

beef kaldereta, and fruit salad

ordered chinese chicken salad and shrimp cakes

salmon especially prepared by dear ate Cecile

pancit from our sweet neighbor, Aling Linda

shrimp balls from my dear cousin, ate Edna

Auntie Virgie's specialties...lumpia shanghai, cassava dessert,

and suman (sticky rice wrapped in banana leaves)

Karaoke fun lasting 'til midnight

and of course, jolly jumper fun complete with obstacle course and a slide.
It was a hit with the kids and kids-at-heart.

The festivities started with a precious prayer from Pastor Anne
Thanks to all our wonderful guests who made the event so much fun
We are so blessed to have the best family and friends

Happy Birthday Darling Isabella!

Birthday Photo Shoot

2009-10-25T17:19:00.000-07:00

On a Friday before Isabella's 10th birthday, we were extremely fortunate to have the privilege of a precious photo session by an incredibly talented photographer...no other than my BFF, Cecile. I am very proud to present a few of her many beautiful snapshots capturing our family's passionate ballerina....

thank you ate Cecile, from the bottom of our hearts.

more lovely shots in equally lovely layouts available for your viewing pleasure in Cecile's photography blog at http://papelle.wordpress.com/. You also wouldn't want to miss visiting her incredible site at http://www.papelle.com/ beholding a great passion and the gift of capturing images and turning them into precious works of art.

Saturdays: Nutcracker Rehearsals and Family Bonding Day

2009-10-17T12:26:00.000-07:00

I started writing this while waiting at the San Francisco Ballet. Saturdays are fast becoming a great family bonding day for us (at least for the three of us - myself, DH Russ, and DD Isabella; as for the boys, let's just say that waiting at the ballet school is not exactly in their list of drag times:)

It's been 6 weeks since Isabella started attending San Francisco Ballet School after auditioning last September 12th. The audition marked the beginning of our Saturday family time. Then last September 26th, Isabella got an opportunity to experience another audition, this time for a part in San Francisco Ballet's Nutcracker production. She tried out for a role for girls under 4'7 as one of the 8 adorable clowns to dance with a big bear in Madame Du Cirque scene in Act 2. You can read about The Nutcracker Story here. Isabella's brothers, Phil and Ian, joined us that day. We had lunch at Japan town in between her morning class and the audition. After lunch the boys took the bart home. Russ and I spent time together while waiting during the two-hour long audition.

Isabella was called to rehearse. Last October 3rd was their first rehearsal day. We had lunch with a couple of her classmates that day (in between her class and rehearsal) at Arlequin Cafe on Hayes Street.

Last week, October 10th, though there were no classes due to memorial day holiday, rehearsals were on. So after rehearsals that day we spent the afternoon at Union Square. We went shopping at Macy's after a great lunch at the Cheesecake Factory. Isabella had a wonderful time looking for "the perfect" dress. And she was able to find a couple of "perfect" dresses (def: size 7-8, girly yet grown up dress, and on sale:))

Today we had lunch at Sage Cafe right behind SF Ballet with one of her classmates. Then after rehearsals we headed to Pleasanton to attend a birthday party at Super Frank's Fun Adventure. Russ, though tired, enjoyed watching Isabella have a great fun time playing at the arcade and riding their zip line. It was yet another wonderful Saturday family bonding day.

Studio Show '09

2009-09-16T21:20:00.001-07:00

Coastal Dance and Music Academy

Clark Center for the Performing Arts

June 28, 2009

San Francisco Ballet School Audition

2009-09-15T21:35:00.001-07:00

Isabella auditioned at the San Francisco Ballet School last Saturday, Sept. 12th. Ian, Russ, and I were there to support her. Unfortunately no family members were allowed to watch the auditions. According to Isabella, it was very exciting. There was a panel of 4 judges/teachers, a pianist, and the teacher conducting the audition. She had a great time and it was an experience she will never forget.

After the auditions, we had an early family dinner at Gerry's Grill. We met Immanuel and we had a nice family "meeting" (on allowances in conjuction with responsibilities, etc.) over superb filipino food.

When we got home, Isabella's BFF, Krystn, called inviting her to watch her own dance show. Isabella was getting ready when I retrieved a message from our answering machine asking if Isabella can practice dance for our church's Heritage event. Isabella missed the first dance practice so, sad as she was for being unable to spend time with Krystn, she made room for the church event. Thank goodness that her BFF Krystn was ok about it. Bless their sweet little hearts. Isabella practiced filipino folk dance with the kids from church.

It was a blessed day.

Today is yet another blessed day. We received an email from the San Francisco Ballet School formally inviting Isabella to attend this year's program. She is so excited to learn she is placed in level 2B, which is her level at CDMA. We credit much of it to the superb training, support, and inspiration she received from CDMA.

Currently, she attends Ballet Petit in Hayward where she takes 3 classes per week. We would need to have another family meeting regarding San Francisco Ballet School. We know it would be a bit difficult to take her to classes all the way in San Francisco, but we also know that it would be a great experience for her. We'll keep you posted.

Family Update - July/August 09

2009-09-10T12:36:00.000-07:00

At last I can write again! It's because our Union City home is finally in some kind of order. It has been an extremely busy July and August for us. No, I'm not whining, just justifying for not following through on my promise for an update after our son, Phil's, graduation last June.

Well, before I bring you up to date regarding Phil, allow me to complete my justification for my inability to write. I want to say again, I'm not whining. I am very grateful for my fruitful undertakings. The only hint of whining, if any, stems from not being able to write. My justification for it?...OCD. I cannot seem to write until I have some kind of order in my surroundings. It's my obsessive-compulsive-disorder getting in the way.

By now, most of you already know we moved back to our Union City home. And for those of you who do not know, while we were in our Pismo home, our Union City home was home to our very friendly and active teen. In other words, it became a party house (not to mention there were 2 untrained dogs). It was in dire need of some major TLC. So right after our Orlando/Jamaica summer vacation, we tackled home improvements and maintenance at our Union City home. We replaced the upstairs carpeted bedrooms to laminate flooring. All the home improvements and maintenance, including selecting materials, (and looking for a dance school for Isabella) took the rest of July through the first week of August.

After the major work, we took a break and headed to our Central Coast home.

two blissful weeks in Pismo:
8/7 (Fri) - drive to Pismo and made it to Isabella's dance class at CDMA
8/8 (Sat) - company class from 9-11 then off to the beach with Phil and Belle in the afternoon.
8/9 (Sun) - family time at Avila Beach with some of Belle's friends from CDMA
8/10 (Mon) - my adult jazz class
8/11 (Tues) - Santa Maria courthouse to take care of my speeding ticket, Belle's dance classes, Belle's haircut (she wanted bangs); ending with family dinner at Rosa's Italian Restaurant
8/12 (Wed) - Isabella's playdate with friend from school, Adrian
8/13 (Thu) - time with my GFF, Tessie while Isabella enjoyed swimming at their clubhouse
8/14 (Fri) - sleepover with Gabby (one of Isabella's BFFs from CDMA)
8/15 (Sat) - Isabella's dance rehearsal; shopping with Tessie at Costco
8/16 (Sun) - good-bye get-together at home with Belle's dance teachers, Ms. Kathy & Ms. Tara
8/17 (Mon) - another sleepover with Gabby
8/20(Thu) - playdate with Sonja (another BFF from CDMA); dress rehearsal for Pier 39 show
8/21 (Fri) - drive back to Union City
8/22 (Sat) - Pier 39 show; Tessie and Steven visited; ate Edna and family

Back in Union City
8/30 (Sun) - time with my cousin ate Edna and family
dance classes for Isabella at Ballet Petit
8/25 (Tues) - time with one of my BFF's, ate Janette, and her DD, Jaezelle (one of Belle's BFFs)
8/27 (Thu) - playdate with Isabella's BFF, Krystn

As you can very well see, it has indeed been a fruitful couple of months for me. With the "busyness" I made sure that there were plenty of great moments with great friends.

Update on Phil
Thanks to Phil we were able to afford our Orlando/Jamaica vacation from his Oracle project earnings. We all had the time of our lives. It was also a great time for him to deliberate and decide which position to accept. It was a very difficult decision for him. He liked both offers: from the Dept. of Defense as Computer Engineer for NavAir, and as Systems Administrator at Experts Exchange.

It took a long while and in the end he decided to accept the offer from Experts Exchange in San Luis Obispo. He works alongside his proud dad (big consideration in the decision-making process). Russ couldn't be any prouder and any more ecstatic. The other plus is the chance of continuing his Masters degree at Cal Poly, which he plans on pursuing in the very near future. He is enjoying his job and involved in several productive projects.

So there you have it....I finally followed through on my promise for an update. Sorry it took so long...hence the equally long update:)

BTW just to let you know I also went back to taekwondo class yesterday after my 3-yr hiatus. Wish me luck that I can keep it up as I am in desperate need for some physical activity.

After all this long update some of you who do not know why we moved back to Union City are probably wondering just why we decided to move back. Well, I have to take Isabella to dance class now so it's going to have to wait until next post. I'll post pictures too... so just check back... hopefully it won't take as long:)

Ian's 17th Birthday

2009-07-17T07:13:00.000-07:00

The day after 4th of July and before our Orlando/Jamaica trip. Our baby boy is now 17. Ian is the youngest amongst our 3 boys. He is taller than I am now but will always be my baby:)

Red Rock Canyon State Park

2009-07-16T21:53:00.001-07:00

We have been very busy after Phil's graduation (an excuse for not having been able to blog since). There were the preparations for CDMA's studio show last June 28th and our summer trip to Jamaica (photos from our fantabulous trip available here). In between we managed to take a mini trip to China Lake/Ridgecrest to visit NAWCWD. On the way back home we were fortunate to chance upon this gem of a state park...the Red Rock Canyon. It was extremely hot but it didn't stop us from taking time for a photo shoot...to admire and capture a magnificent wilderness...and we are grateful.

sharing at The Inspired Room and Sky Watch Friday

Father's Day 09

2009-07-16T21:45:00.000-07:00

We had an extended Father's Day celebration this year. The kids and I visited Russ at work Monday following Father's Day. We had a very nice lunch at Buona Tavola in downtown SLO.

It's Official

2009-06-14T20:01:00.000-07:00

We are very proud to present our graduate...

Irving R. Phillips, III (Phil)

Bachelor of Science

Computer Engineering

Magna Cum Laude

California Polytechnic State University

San Luis Obispo

Spring 2009

After the main ceremony, we headed to the private reception for the CPE (Computer Engineering) graduates. It was a brief private ceremony as there were only 45 Computer Engineering graduates.

We had time to take a family photo in between the two ceremonies. (photo taken by Krystal)

Photo with Phil's Senior Advisor, Dr. Liddecoat.

Our intimate family celebration at the Dolphin Bay's Lido Restaurant

This is a very momentous day for our family.

Congratulations Phil!

Last Day of School

2009-06-14T19:31:00.000-07:00

Isabella - Straight Honor Roll and Perfect Attendance Award
Ian - Best Independent Study Student Award

Announcing....Phil's Graduation

2009-06-01T16:36:00.000-07:00

It seems like it wasn't too long ago when we celebrated Phil's highschool graduation back in 2005. Some of you joined in our celebration party at the Mariott Hotel in Newark, CA. I remembered crying while reading a letter I wrote for him inspired by the song "I Hope You Dance" by Lee Ann Womack.

And boy, dance he did...to the tune of academic excellence.

After four years of hard work, we are very proud to announce his graduation from Cal Poly as Magna Cum Laude in Computer Engineering.

Photo courtesy of Papelle Photographie

There is a good reason they call these ceremonies "commencement exercises."

Graduation is not the end; it's the beginning. ~Orrin Hatch

This is another milestone for our family; one that indeed marks the beginning of yet another chapter. Thank you for being a part of our life. We are very proud of our son, Phil, for his extraordinary achievements.

News highlights on Phil since our Christmas newsletter:

Tour/interview at The Naval Air Warfare Center Weapons Division (NAWCWD) last December resulting in a formal job offer. His visit to China Lake was arranged and paid for by NAWCWD.

Travel to Malta last spring break as part of Cal Poly’s ICEX Team (International Computer Engineering Exchange program). The program is called Malta Cistern Mapping Project. This project was recently featured on a local news station.

Final senior project for ViaSat, a satellite communications company.

Currently doing part-time, paid, remote work for Oracle.

Contemplating on pursuing his Masters.

Phil knew what he wanted from the beginning: he has always had that "sense of wonder" or fascination with computers and robotics (maybe it's the computer flowchart mobile his dad made for him when he was a baby. I was going to say it's from my genes but everyone knows Calculus makes my head spin and smoke:).

His strong interest with computers continued through highschool. He earned a Department Award in Computer Science and Student of the Year award in Computer Programming. He was thrilled when he was accepted at Cal Poly. He knew the moment we toured the campus that it was the school for him. It was our first and last college campus tour for him.

Cal Poly is indeed a perfect fit for him apparent in his continued growth not only in academics but in his character as a whole. The best attributes of Phil are his strong faith and positive outlook. He is a great steward of his blessings. It is evident in the way he cultivates his God-given talents through his diligence, perseverance and constientious efforts. He does his best, and then he leaves the rest to God. I have witnessed this blessed attitude countless times. One recent example I can remember is when he applied for the Malta ICEX program.

Originally, the program can only fund 5 students. He was initially selected as an alternate. I knew how much he wanted to travel to Malta, yet I did not see a hint of disappointment. He felt honored to be selected as an alternate and be able to contribute to the program. For Phil, all he can do is do his best; and the rest is not up to him but HIM who is ultimately in control. He was happy to be part of the technical training in preparation for the trip. They must have seen his wonderful work ethics and this positive outlook I talk about. As it turned out, the program was able to fund 6 students. Moreover, he gained valuable mentorship and sponsorship from the program's Technical Director, Dr. Chris Clark, who recommended him for an Outstanding Graduating Senior award and is encouraging him to pursue his graduate studies.

If my mantra is "too blessed to be stressed", Phil's is "carpe diem", which means sieze the day. To him every day is a blessing and therefore time should not be wasted. I say, he is a great blessing....all that he is....and we are truly grateful.

He has several options/choices in front of him. We will keep you posted of his future plans. Again, we thank you for all your prayers and support and for being a great part of our life.

My First Drive By...Inspiring Homes On My Street

2009-05-29T11:55:00.000-07:00

When I came across Melissa's drive-by posts at the Inspired Room several months ago, I was hooked. Ever since then I had been meaning to do my own drive-by. Finally I got the chance. I took advantage of the time when I needed to drive my car around the block to make sure the battery stayed alive after jump starting it. It was a great start. I love the homes on my street. Hopefully I will continue to have the chance...there are so many inspiring homes in Pismo Beach. It was kind of scary doing a drive by and a bit embarrassing:) so I just took one shot of each home and moved on to the next. Hopefully when I get a little bit more experienced at it I'll be able to take closer shots.

Presenting my first shot...an inspiring English style home.

Directly across from it is this very nice Southwestern style abode.

And next to it...I could have taken a much better shot if I weren't so worried...next time:)

And at the end of the block...safari inspired?

This last one is one of the homes we considered making an offer on when we were looking for homes in the area almost 3 years ago. Beautiful inside too but the thought of too much mortgage and too much cleaning made us shy away from it.

Until my next drive-by...wish me luck!

Mission Project and Family Time

2009-05-27T21:52:00.000-07:00

Presenting.... Isabella's final 4th grade project.... a model of Mission San Juan Bautista. At last we're done! We have been working on it for the past 2 weekends. I am so glad I can finally check it off from my list.

Now she needs to work on her directive speech. In preparation for it, she and big brother Phil baked banana bread. It was a yummy snack perfect for celebrating our completed project. Aahhh...bliss!

A photo from our visit at the Mission last spring break

besides the Mission project, I was joyfully kept busy preparing graduation announcements and sampling restaurants....another great task perfect for precious family bonding time.

Last Thursday, the boys and I had a lunch date at Steamers of Pismo.

This past Saturday we spent a great afternoon watching Isabella and CDMA's dance troupes perform at the Strawberry Festival. After Isabella's dance show, she had fun at the game booths with her friend Gabby. Then we were off to another family lunch date at Spyglass Inn Restaurant.

(Of course I forgot to take photos so I just took the restaurants' photos from their website:).

Project Procrastinators: The Reveal

2009-05-13T11:46:00.000-07:00

Two weeks ago, Thursday, April 29th, I joined The Inspired Room's Project Procrastinators Party . Melissa gave a challenge/encouragement to tackle a project we are procrastinating on (thanks for the push Melissa). I declared that I will take on a bathroom flooring and replace the carpet with tile, something I have been procrastinating on for the past two years.

After I posted my declaration, I started feeling overwhelmed realizing I have so many other things to do including helping my DD Isabella on her California Mission project. I kept reminding myself: "baby steps" but I couldn't find time even for baby steps. Not to mention that the baby steps on this job required some help taking out the toilet and ripping out the carpet. I am very grateful for the supportive comments I received that gave me the push I needed. Then there was the ultimate and precious encouragement from my darling son, Phil, who said to me: "Don't worry mom, I will help you. It will be my mother's day present". Ahhh heavenly to a mother's heart.

Here's the "Before" photo

So last Saturday, May 9th, after Isabella's performance, Phil and I headed to Osh to buy our supplies (perfect timing...it was "no sales tax" weekend). As soon as we got home Phil started taking out the toilet, and together, we ripped out the carpet. (He even remembered to take a photo...what a sweetheart).

Then we started laying out the tumbled travertine tiles we have leftover from the kitchen job (a combination of 4x4 and 6x6). We tried several creative ways of laying them out so that we won't have to cut (we don't have a cutter). Try as we might we couldn't do it without having to cut; and worse, we were short a couple of tiles. So the next creative thing? mosaic! I've been wanting to do a mosaic project for the longest time. And this is the perfect time for it! Mosaic is the answer to our dilemma. It eliminated the need of trying to make sure the layout is straight and even, thereby eliminating the need to cut. Best of all, the mosaic method allowed for maximizing the tiles we had so we ended up having more than enough to cover the area.

So on to the fun part...breaking the tiles...even Isabella joined in the fun. Then we started laying them out like a jigsaw puzzle. By this time it was late. That was our baby step for the day.

Sunday would have been a great day to make a major dent on the project but it was that "time of the month" for me. I was not feeling well to a point that I couldn't even make it to church (that says something about how bad I was feeling...I look forward and love going to church...I watched an archived online sermon instead). So I stayed in bed and I had another perfect mother's day present...a breakfast in bed from my DD, Isabella (with the help of DH of course; daddy said she was crying when she woke up thinking she won't finish preparing in time before I woke up). I may have been feeling bad physically, but I was in heaven. And come to find out, Phil continued until past the dead of night working on the mosaic. So in the afternoon, it inspired me to continue the mosaic past the halfway mark.

We finished the mosaic on Monday; and on Tuesday, we grouted.

I still have to seal it and caulk the sides and Phil has to put in the new Kohler toilet. Other than that, our bathroom floor is done!...We did it!...I am so grateful!

Here it is...

And a closer look....hopefully the sealer gives it a bit of shine when I apply it tomorrow:)

An "Imeldific" Visit

2009-05-06T18:33:00.000-07:00

I had the honour and pleasure of hosting to the most benevolent and hardworking:) overnight guests...my angel BFF, ate Cecile, and her own angel BFF, ate Pinky, together with ate Cecile's darling kids, Timothy and Krystn.

They arrived Friday night, and though tired from the drive and the long day at work, they stayed up until the dead of night allowing me to catch up on everything and anything I've missed...and boy how I've missed them...it was a blissful "catch up" time. And oh did I mention the 'pasalubongs'? (def: arrival presents)...my favorite...lots of delightful chocolates!...and a very special gift from ate Ms. Pinky...an "Imeldific" pair of earrings with pearl and diamonds. (contrary to the internet's tasteless definition of the term "Imeldific", it is a term we use for something so beautiful, elegant, and terrific as the Mrs. Imelda Marcos, who happens to be a personal close friend of Ms. Pinky's mom. What are the gifts for, you wonder? any occassion? nope. This is just the kind of person ate Pinky and ate Cecile are...extremely thoughtful and giving..."Imeldific"! Anyway, this "imeldific" pair of earrings is indeed a precious gift I will treasure forever. Thank you ate Pinky.

Here's a photo of the "imeldific" room I prepared for them (if I should say so myself:)

Isabella is just as delighted to spend time with her own BFF, Krystn. They stayed up way past the dead of night and woke up just past the wee hours to surprise us with a home made breakfast. Bless their sweet little hearts...they prepared muffins from scratch (they googled a recipe and cleverly asked their tita Pinky how to preheat an oven for Isabella's supposed cooking class homework. ingenious eh? and imeldific in their own right). They also prepared one of ate Cecile's fave breakfast food, spam. (the mess was all worth it!). Even Timothy took on the role of a very charming waiter (talk about putting guests to work:)). I read somewhere that it's ok to have guests help out so they feel more comfortable,...but loading and unloading the dishwasher? especially guests who aren't really used to doing that sort of stuff?...well, my own guest beat me to it...my mom said I was too slow...what can I say...we live and learn...(next time ate Cecile I'm tying you to the chair!:)

After breakfast, ate Cecile went to work some more taking photos for my son's senior portraiture. This is such a priviledge for us. In case you don't know, ate Cecile is a sought after photographer...how lucky are we!

After the photo shoot, we were off for some shopping fun while the kids stayed home for their own bonding time. Then the kids hit the beach while the three of us (dubbed "Charlie's Angels" by ate Pinky), hit a restaurant by the beach for a birthday lunch for dearest ate Cecile...her treat...she beat me to it...again! (no wonder she wanted to guard my purse from the moment we entered the restaurant...it's like dejavu...similar thing happened a couple of years ago...she's too clever and too fast for me.)

It was time to say goodbye shortly after, but not before more last minute bonding time over ate Cecile's delish homemade chicken pot pie (yet another "imeldific" gesture). The kids enjoyed it most especially my big boys:)

What a blessed time...I am simply grateful.

Project Procrastinators: Unite

2009-04-29T18:31:00.000-07:00

I declared last week at The Inspired Room that I will unite with project procrastinators. After I made my declaration, it felt like I broke into a cold sweat. What did I get myself into? Like I said on my declaration/comment on Melissa's post, I am definitely a procrastinator. My OCD:) gets in the way everytime. I get overwhelmed and I can’t seem to start. So many projects…so little time. But like Melissa said, "Even if we don’t finish, we’ll be farther along than if we hadn’t started." So baby steps it is! Thanks for the push Melissa! But wait! Am I really up for this challenge right now? I'm beginning to feel that overwhelming sensation again. I attribute it to my OCD but I like the way Mellisa puts it...she calls it sensory overload.

Now where do I begin? Which project to tackle first? Big Sigh. This is so difficult for me. Ok I have to remind myself: BABY STEPS.

This post is a big first baby step in itself. The declaration in blogland helps with the much needed push...accountability!

So I guess I will start with a list. Actually I already have a list...a long one. Ok I guess now is the time to prioritize and, like the Nike commercial, just do it.

So here goes. I've finally decided which one to do first...it has nothing to do with painting but something I have been putting off for the longest time...the flooring in the boys room.

Since this is a big project that I don't think I can finish in two weeks, I will break it down. This is the only room in the house without a hardwood flooring. This room is like a second master's suite. It is carpeted all the way to its bathroom (yuk! the potty here has been off limits) . So it's time to stop procrastinating and rip out the carpet, at least in the bathroom area (for now), and replace it with the leftover tile that we already have. Now I just have to believe..."I think I can, I think I can..." You think?

I think there's hope on my procrastination...I didn't procrastinate posting this:)

Here is the before photo

I also plan to paint the cabinets but not until after I finish tiling the floor. Please wish me luck...I need all the luck I can get on this project.

I thought I'd also share a before and after photo of my most recent very small project. I changed the hangers on my closet. It has also been on my project list for the longest time and I finally got the chance to do it.

Here's the before with the plastic hangers

Here is the after with the wooden hangers

It is such a small thing that made a big difference...it elevates my mood whenever I hang clothes.

Santa Barbara Zoo

2009-04-22T19:04:00.000-07:00

We had a fun day at the Santa Barbara Zoo last Sunday, the 19th. After the zoo we strolled the fabulous State Street for the shopaholic in us. The we ended the day at the Mission. This day drip to Santa Barbara is surely a wonderful end to a fabulous spring break.

Cal Poly Open House

2009-04-22T17:00:00.001-07:00

We attended Cal Poly's open house last Saturday, April 18th. Phil gave us a tour of his lab room to which he has his own key. I called it his office as he has a dedicated workstation for his senior project work.

Then we followed him to the room where they were having the

ICEX MALTA 2009 PRESENTATION: Application of Robotics in Archeology.

Thanks to kuya Phil, Isabella got the chance to control and maneuver the robot.

While Phil stayed with the group to answer questions, we took Isabella to the fun house and the bookstore.

Then we met up with Phil for a fun afternoon in downtown SLO and a wonderful lunch in Morro Bay. I asked Phil how the question/answer portion of the presentation went. He said he was asked how he made it (to graduate in engineering) in four years. His answer of course is AP classes in highschool knocking most of his freshman year in Cal Poly.

Isabella gave him a big kiss...it was a wonderful bonding time...total bliss to a mother's heart.

On A Mission...

2009-04-21T18:05:00.000-07:00

Isabella will soon be doing a project on a California Mission of her choice. So we thought it's a great idea to go on a mission to visit a couple of the California Missions during spring break.

On our drive back to Pismo last Thursday, April 16th, we stopped at Mission San Juan Bautista

Then on Friday, April 17th, we headed to Solvang and visited Mission Santa Ines

And it was on to Mission San Luis Obispo de Tolosa after Cal Poly's open house last Saturday. Isabella went skateboarding through the sidewalks of downtown SLO, from the parking structure to the mission. Then we visited the Historical Museum next door to the mission.

and on Sunday, the 19th, we visited the Mission in Santa Barbara

by the time we got to the mission, after the zoo and our shopping escapade on State St., the weather had cooled down and no one was there. So it was perfect skateboarding time for Isabella.

Solvang

2009-04-21T16:15:00.001-07:00

Blissful Skateboarding

2009-04-21T12:52:00.001-07:00

This is the highlight of our short visit to Union city during spring break. One of my heavenly moments as a mom...watching my kids having fun with each other and witnessing the love that abound. Isabella and Ian were tickled when Immanuel took them to the park to teach them skateboarding.

First Immanuel gave them a demonstration

Then it was time for one-on-one instruction...skateboarding 101 beginning with Ian

Then Isabella's turn

In a short while Ian was trying tricks

and then it was Isabella's time to go solo

then they both show Immanuel what they learned

Even our dogs, Indy and Pirate had a fun time

We ended the day with a family dinner at Seafood Buffet in Fremont...blissful indeed!

Spring Break '09

2009-04-20T21:07:00.001-07:00

We did not have any plans for spring break. In fact I was dreading it. I thought I will spend most of the beautiful spring break cleaning our Union City home. As it turns out, we had a fun and relaxing spring break.

When we arrived in Union City, I couldn't bring myself to "cleaning mode". Most of you who really know me, know that I have borderline OCD when it comes to cleaning/organizing. From the looks of our Union City home in my OCD standards, a week's worth of cleaning isn't gonna cut it...I need an entire month or even a year! for all the projects I have in mind...now do you think I have borderline OCD? my kids say it's full blown OCD. Anyway, like I said, I couldn't get myself to clean...I was so overwhelmed, I froze! So what does one do when the going gets tough? the tough goes shopping!:) kidding aside, you do know when the going gets tough, the tough turns to the bible right? So, I did go shopping but not before meditating and reflecting.

Here are the highlights and summary of our blissful spring break.

4/11 - Saturday

Easter Egg Hunt at Dinosaur Caves Park

4/12 - Sunday

heavenly easter service with the whole family and our own backyard egg hunt

4/13 - Monday

drive to Union City

4/14 - Tuesday

shopping with my mom and dad Dennis at the Great Mall

4/15 - Wednesday

bonding time with the kids as they skateboard at Hall Ranch Park followed by a family dinner at Seafood Buffet in Fremont

4/16 - Thursday

time with Immanuel at the car repair shop handling the insurance claim for his Subaru STI
visited Mission San Juan Bautista on the drive back to Pismo

4/17 - Friday

day trip to Solvang

4/18 - Saturday

bonding time with Phil during Cal Poly's open house
visited SLO Mission and Morro Bay

4/19 - Sunday

day trip to Santa Barbara after church (Santa Barbara zoo, shopping and the Mission)

Details and photos to follow

1984 HS yearbook photo

2009-04-14T18:28:00.000-07:00

I can't believe someone uploaded the yearbook photos from my high school, St. Mary's College, Quezon City, batch 1984. I never got a chance to get a copy of my yearbook. I already paid for it back then but it wasn't ready at the time I left for the U.S. I have to thank whoever took the time to do this. I am so grateful.

Happy Easter!!!

2009-04-12T20:17:00.000-07:00

I had a blissful Easter morning...great church service in the company of my wonderful family...heavenly!

Then we went grocery shopping as a family right after church. Isabella rented a "princess" movie that we watched after lunch.

Later in the afternoon, Isabella and Phil went to the park. While they were away, daddy and Ian hid easter eggs in the backyard (even our dog Indy joined in).

And it was backyard easter egg hunting as soon as they got back from the park.

Hmmm...where might those eggs be? And why is Phil wearing his basket on his head?

Now it seems to me that Kuya (big brother) Phil is the one having the most fun

Here comes dad joining in the fun

It has been a fun day indeed. I want to leave you with one of my fave bible verses from John 10:10b Jesus Himself said: "I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full." Hope you all had a great Easter.

Easter Egg Hunt 09

2009-04-11T13:07:00.000-07:00

It was a great day for an Easter Egg Hunt at the Dinosaur Caves Park.

We picked up Isabella's friend, Adrian, who lives a couple of blocks from our house.

they had a fun time blowing bubbles and "hoola-hooping" before the egg hunt

then the mad hunt begins

and a nice light lunch right after

then on to the jolly jumpers just before heading home.

The fun continues at home as Isabella and Adrian create "movies" to their hearts' delight. Isabella is into "directing" these days...as in "Lights, Camera, Action!!!"

We dropped off Adrian at around 3pm. The fun still continues as Phil and Belle head to the park around 5pm. I picked them up an hour later and we headed to the beach.

Isabella: "Can we go to the candy store by the beach?"

Phil: "We can't, it burned down" (well, not exactly, but last time Phil and I went shopping just before his trip to Malta a couple of weeks ago, there was a sign posted at the candy shop saying: "closed due to fire")

Isabella was convinced we were kidding.

Phil went boogie boarding while I took Belle to the closed candy shop to prove we were "sort of not kidding":)...no worries, it's scheduled to reopen soon and we had a great, fun day.

Happy Easter everyone!!!